Thanks for the interview.

That was powerful. And refreshing. Amen?

I love Matt’s no nonsense attitude. You sure you’re not from Jersey, Matt?

Thanks again Ben,
Jim

http://www.hardtofindseminars.com/Angel_Investing_Interview_Series.htm

Ben

I am a christian who is trying to get a start-up off the ground, but like many start-ups today, I am seeking financial resources for capital expenses. Institutions I have approached are just not interested in a start-up in this economy. Any suggestions besides the usual family, bootstrapping, and friends?
Please keep all christian entrepreneurs in prayer.

Thanks,
Greg

Ben

I think it was Abraham Maslow who said “Great achievers have become independent of the good opinion of others.”

When we put ourselves in front of people and take on a position of authority it’s in our best interest to dispense gold stars. Not seek them from others.

Actually in any aspect of your life you’re asking for a horrid existence if you are constantly seeking the approval of every person you interact with. Especially if your exposure is deep and wide.

One of the finest programs I’ve ever encountered that helped me chip away at the inner desire to adhere to the “good opinion of others” is The Sedona Method.

The philosophy professed here has transformed the way I live my life. It’s taken me from inner turmoil all the time; to inner peace whenever I choose. One of the most critical problems this way of thinking resolves is your desire for approval.

The Method was developed by a man named Lester Levenson. He is no longer alive and two men who were close to him have started separate companies teaching this to people.

If you google Sedona Method, you’ll find a Hale Dwoskin’s site. My dad has fallen head over heals in love with the Sedona Method but when I played this guys CD’s for him he had a hard time getting over, how shall I say, the lack of testosterone in the guys voice.

So, I played Larry Crane’s (google Release Technique), the strong voiced New Yorker, teaching this system, and he clicked right away with him.

Both of these guys basically teach the same thing but expose their unique client experiences and metaphors to you. I’ve listened to hours and hours of both of them and can assert they both are great.

If the feeling of tension you get in your chest and stomach persists and causes you any kind of stress whenever you sense someone doesn’t like you, I highly suggest you snag a program from either of these guys.

You’ll be grateful you did.

Talk to you soon Ben,
Note Taking Nerd #2