I know a girl who always ends up with these guys that she always describes as “douche bags.” At the same time, I’ve seen her go through a parade of good, decent guys who want a good girl and want to treat a girl right and all that.
i.e. they’re into chivalry and think it still works.
But, she always finds something wrong with these good guys.
Something small, and pointless and, in many cases, something her douche bag boyfriends have or do too.
In other words:
She spurns the chivalrous guys and chases the knaves.
If you asked her, she’d say she’s an innocent victim.
But, the reality is, she’s a *willing* victim.
And, you know what else?
This happens even more in the business world.
And today’s “Ben Settle Show” goes into great detail on how to tell if someone (or even yourself) is truly an innocent victim (hardly anyone is) or just a willing victim looking for sympathy for their bad decisions. This info is extremely profitable and peace-of-mind-generating to people who know it — as we know how to identify (and repel) the willing victims from buying from us, wasting our time, or poisoning our mindset.
Anyway, I rap about this in detail on today’s show.