{"id":10744,"date":"2016-04-22T06:30:00","date_gmt":"2016-04-22T13:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=10744"},"modified":"2016-04-22T06:30:00","modified_gmt":"2016-04-22T13:30:00","slug":"how-to-sell-to-people-who-hate-your-guts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/how-to-sell-to-people-who-hate-your-guts\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Sell To People Who Hate Your Guts"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So last weekend I spoke at \u201cEmail Players\u201d subscriber Buck Rizvi\u2019s \u201cHealth Profits Summit\u201d in Boulder, CO, for his RealDose Nutrition company (one of the world&#8217;s leading nutritional supplement companies).<\/p>\n<p>It was easily one of the best trainings I ever gave.<\/p>\n<p>One of my long-time marketing \u201cheroes\u201d Tellman Knudson even said:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNailed it\u201d afterwards on Facebook.<\/p>\n<p>Oh, and you bet your bootay I will be sending my particular training free to \u201cEmail Players\u201d subscribers (if memory serves, people paid a small fortune to be in the room) just as soon as I get my greedy little hands on the video.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, why should you care?<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll tell you why:<\/p>\n<p>Because the summit host Buck Rizvi said something during his intro to my talk that can make *anyone* reading this more of the green stuff with email if you take it to heart and run with it.<\/p>\n<p>Something very simple.<\/p>\n<p>Yet, very profound at the same time.<\/p>\n<p>What did he say?<\/p>\n<p>Paraphrased:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>\u201cI can\u2019t delete Ben\u2019s emails even when he says something that offends or angers me. But\u00a0not only do I keep reading, I have\u00a0since bought everything he sells\u2026\u201d<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>This is not an unusual testimonial around here.<\/p>\n<p>I get various kinds of that testimonial from others, too.<\/p>\n<p>Even the esteemed Russell Brunson told me at dinner once that he hated me and couldn\u2019t stand me originally\u2026 but then ended up loving my emails (even telling everyone at a Glazer-Kennedy event to read my stuff) and buying some of my products.<\/p>\n<p>How does this happen?<\/p>\n<p>How do I flip people over from the dark side like that?<\/p>\n<p>And, how can you do the same?<\/p>\n<p>Well, it ain\u2019t my sparkling personality, that\u2019s for sure.<\/p>\n<p>No, I simply know how to build a rock solid relationship with my list.<\/p>\n<p>When I say \u201crelationship\u201d, I\u2019m not talking about fake &amp; fluffy unicorn farts and rainbow burps relationship-building where my readers love and adore me and hang onto my every word like scripture, but never buy anything.<\/p>\n<p>Often it\u2019s just the opposite.<\/p>\n<p>They read my emails while pounding their fists on their desk. Spend hours (literally) writing draft after draft to reply to one of my emails where I said something that (gasp!) offended them or that they disagree with. And, like that old couple looking at the Kramer painting in \u201cSeinfeld\u201d, consider me a loathsome, offensive brute\u2026 yet can\u2019t look away.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s okay.<\/p>\n<p>Because I\u2019m inside their psychology.<\/p>\n<p>They can\u2019t get me out of their heads.<\/p>\n<p>And, in some cases, eventually they realize they kinda *like* it.<\/p>\n<p>Eventually, many even buy (or even invite me to speak at their events\u2026)<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, would you like to write emails like this?<\/p>\n<p>That build a for-real relationship with your list?<\/p>\n<p>Mayhaps even a \u201ccheat sheet\u201d of sorts showing you how?<\/p>\n<p>Then hop off your high horse and get your gluteus assimus on the \u201cEmail Players\u201d list before the May issue goes to the printer next week. Inside I give you a 10-point crib sheet on how to build a rock solid relationship with your email list.<\/p>\n<p>I should have compiled this years ago.<\/p>\n<p>But, I didn\u2019t really think to do it until recently.<\/p>\n<p>Specifically, when I realized you can\u2019t swing a bat without hitting yet another fluffpreneur on flakebook teaching people how to be \u201cauthentic\u201d (it both amuses and startles me that people have to be taught how to be authentic).<\/p>\n<p>Screw that sideways.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll take the Pepsi challenge putting my 10-point \u201chow to build a relationship\u201d cheat sheet (which is less than 3 pages long) against all these flower-sniffing authenticity and relationship marketers haunting Facebook with long-winded videos any day of the week and twice on Sunday. Do things my way and your list may not *like* you, but they\u2019ll respect you, have trouble not reading you, and, yes, even buy from you if you have the right kind of offer.<\/p>\n<p>I see and experience it all the time.<\/p>\n<p>Ain\u2019t no reason why you can\u2019t, neither.<\/p>\n<p>Again, this \u201chow to build a relationship\u201d cheat sheet is in the May issue.<\/p>\n<p>It applies to emails, obviously.<\/p>\n<p>But, can be used for video.<\/p>\n<p>For social media.<\/p>\n<p>For podcasts.<\/p>\n<p>And, even, for your personal relationships.<\/p>\n<p>To read it, you must be subscribed before it goes to the printer.<\/p>\n<p>After that?<\/p>\n<p>Too late Bro-chacho.<\/p>\n<p>Click the righteous link below to subscribe in time:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.EmailPlayers.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">www.EmailPlayers.com<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So last weekend I spoke at \u201cEmail Players\u201d subscriber Buck Rizvi\u2019s \u201cHealth Profits Summit\u201d in Boulder, CO, for his RealDose Nutrition company (one of the world&#8217;s leading nutritional supplement companies). It was easily one of the best trainings I ever gave. One of my long-time marketing \u201cheroes\u201d Tellman Knudson even said: \u201cNailed it\u201d afterwards on [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-10744","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-email-marketing"},"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10744","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10744"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10744\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10744"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10744"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10744"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}