{"id":11273,"date":"2016-11-08T06:30:43","date_gmt":"2016-11-08T14:30:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=11273"},"modified":"2016-11-08T06:30:43","modified_gmt":"2016-11-08T14:30:43","slug":"how-to-draw-out-secrets-from-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/how-to-draw-out-secrets-from-people\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Draw Out Secrets From People"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Few years back\u00a0I was hanging out with this chick I was dating and we got into a bit of a, er, snafu.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s what happened:<\/p>\n<p>This chick might just get the reward for *least* dramatic girl ever to have lived.<\/p>\n<p>It takes a LOT for even me (Mr. Instigator) to get her riled up.<\/p>\n<p>But, eventually, I started asking her questions that got her admitting all kinds of dirty details on her life. Stuff she never shared with anyone else. Stuff that, frankly, disqualified her to receive my precious and ever elusive commitment.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, at the end of the discussion she says:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>\u201celBenbo, you\u2019re exhausting. We could have had a good thing why did you have to ruin it with all your probing???\u201d<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>To which I replied:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>\u201cGet out.\u201d<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Just kidding, just kidding.<\/p>\n<p>Sheesh.<\/p>\n<p>Even I\u2019m not *that* mean.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, here\u2019s the point:<\/p>\n<p>I was recently looking at the exact same market analysis questions I use to write ads (back when I did client work) and that I talk about in my Copy Slacker product. And, it was astonishing how similar the intent of the questions I asked her were to what is in those questions.<\/p>\n<p>Not the exact same, of course.<\/p>\n<p>But, very similar.<\/p>\n<p>And it occurred to me, my Copy Slacker market intel skills can be used by guys to get info out of girls they are dating (or vice versa). You just have to adapt them to the situation. But the spirit of the questioning, probing, and unearthing the truth is all the same.<\/p>\n<p>I can draw out what someone really is very quickly these days.<\/p>\n<p>And, I believe it\u2019s because of my market research training.<\/p>\n<p>Training, I teach in Copy Slacker.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, do with this info what you want.<\/p>\n<p>To check out the product (very expensive product) go here:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.CopySlacker.com\"><strong>www.CopySlacker.com<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Few years back\u00a0I was hanging out with this chick I was dating and we got into a bit of a, er, snafu. Here\u2019s what happened: This chick might just get the reward for *least* dramatic girl ever to have lived. It takes a LOT for even me (Mr. Instigator) to get her riled up. But, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-11273","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-email-marketing"},"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11273","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11273"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11273\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11273"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11273"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11273"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}