{"id":11434,"date":"2016-12-16T06:30:24","date_gmt":"2016-12-16T14:30:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=11434"},"modified":"2016-12-16T06:30:24","modified_gmt":"2016-12-16T14:30:24","slug":"think-and-dont-be-a-bitch","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/think-and-dont-be-a-bitch\/","title":{"rendered":"Think And Don&#8217;t Be A Bitch"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Mercy Kay was thinking about me the other night, and declared on Flakebook:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>\u201cWas thinking about this^^^ last night&#8230; you really might be getting omnipresent!! I&#8217;ve noticed the more time I spend in The Lair, the more I adopt the terminology even IRL. Pretty sure it&#8217;s the same situation as with your emails: people don&#8217;t INTEND to copy\/swipe the expressions you use, but when words like \u2018wicked ways\u2019 and &#8220;this pleases me&#8221; starts popping out in normal speech\/writings, regular folk be like, \u2018Huh???\u2019 Surely, it&#8217;s not only me\u2026\u201d<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>No, Mercy, it is not only you.<\/p>\n<p>Not by a sight.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, true story:<\/p>\n<p>I can&#8217;t remember which of the people whose souls I&#8217;ve claimed in my audience said it, but they&#8217;ve been watching all my speaking videos on YouTube (I sent as a reward for winning a contest) and said they are starting to talk like me.<\/p>\n<p>More:<\/p>\n<p>A girl I dated a couple months ago, just hanging out with me (never saw any of my videos or facebook) said she caught herself using my wicked ways in conversation.<\/p>\n<p>Still more:<\/p>\n<p>And my ex-copywriting apprentice, before we had even dated or I bestowed upon her the gift of my Mastership, was always quoting me to her friends and family just being on my email list, educating them with my wisdom and causing some of them to probably want to vomit.<\/p>\n<p>That said:<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll never be a voice worth hearing if all you do is copy and ape people.<\/p>\n<p>Whether that be me or anyone else.<\/p>\n<p>Otherwise, you just look like our bytch.<\/p>\n<p>Aaaaand a new book title has been inspired:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>\u201cThink And Don\u2019t Be A Bitch\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>While I\u2019m writing that, be sure to subscribe to my \u201cEmail Players\u201d newsletter before the deadline. The January issue is easily some of the most profitable info I\u2019ve ever shared and can change the way you think, work, and make muney with email overnight.<\/p>\n<p>(As the info did for Yours Unruly.)<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s where to subscribe:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.EmailPlayers.com\"><strong>www.EmailPlayers.com<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mercy Kay was thinking about me the other night, and declared on Flakebook: \u201cWas thinking about this^^^ last night&#8230; you really might be getting omnipresent!! I&#8217;ve noticed the more time I spend in The Lair, the more I adopt the terminology even IRL. 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