{"id":11999,"date":"2017-04-10T10:38:11","date_gmt":"2017-04-10T14:38:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=11999"},"modified":"2017-04-10T10:38:11","modified_gmt":"2017-04-10T14:38:11","slug":"pubic-hair-on-the-bar-of-soap","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/pubic-hair-on-the-bar-of-soap\/","title":{"rendered":"Pubic Hair On The Bar Of Soap"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Couple months ago one of my \u201cEmail Players\u201d subscribers came to me with a question.<\/p>\n<p>He said:<\/p>\n<p>(Paraphrased)<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>\u201celBenbo, I am in a bind. I am one of the top affiliates for a very well known marketer. And I make a lot of sales from selling his main offer. It\u2019s a great offer that is high quality and I have no problem selling it to my list. But what bothers me is one of the immediate upsells. It\u2019s for a product that sounds shady and crappy. This person I sell for has a great reputation but this upsell is from some guy I don\u2019t know and just sounds like hype. Should I sell it anyway since I am only promoting the main product and the upsell is out of my hands?\u201d<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>My answer?<\/p>\n<p>I told him about a room I rented in Napa, California on a wine tasting vacation a couple years back.<\/p>\n<p>The room was clean, the house owner was great, and all was well.<\/p>\n<p>Except for one thing:<\/p>\n<p>The shower had a single bar of soap to wash with.<\/p>\n<p>And, that bar of soap was not only used\u2026 but had a scraggly pubic hair on it.<\/p>\n<p>That one pubic hair made the entire experience different \u2014 made everything seem less clean, less sanitary, and less pleasant to stay in the entire weekend I was there.<\/p>\n<p>And so it is with selling things as an affiliate.<\/p>\n<p>That low class upsell offer is like the pubic hair on a bar of otherwise good soap.<\/p>\n<p>You want to subject your list to a pubic hair?<\/p>\n<p>No?<\/p>\n<p>Then, move ye on.<\/p>\n<p>Bottom line:<\/p>\n<p>The great \u201cfounding father of Internet marketing\u201d Ken McCarthy once told me, trust is like a light switch. You can spend years and decades and building it up, and one bad move can switch it off in a second. And, once that switch is off, it ain\u2019t easy to turn back on\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u2018nuff said, Spiderman.<\/p>\n<p>To check out my \u201cEmail Players\u201d newsletter go here:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.EmailPlayers.com\"><strong>www.EmailPlayers.com<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Couple months ago one of my \u201cEmail Players\u201d subscribers came to me with a question. He said: (Paraphrased) \u201celBenbo, I am in a bind. I am one of the top affiliates for a very well known marketer. And I make a lot of sales from selling his main offer. It\u2019s a great offer that is [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-11999","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-email-marketing"},"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11999","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11999"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11999\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11999"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11999"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11999"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}