{"id":12240,"date":"2017-08-08T07:22:15","date_gmt":"2017-08-08T14:22:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=12240"},"modified":"2017-08-08T07:22:15","modified_gmt":"2017-08-08T14:22:15","slug":"my-most-extreme-and-controversial-stance-on-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/my-most-extreme-and-controversial-stance-on-people\/","title":{"rendered":"My Most Extreme And Controversial Stance On People"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Last week, I wrote an email about how you become like the people you spend all your time with. My example was, if you hang out with pessimistic losers, you\u2019ll become a pessimistic loser over time.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, the esteemed A-list copywriter Bob Bly shared it on Facebook.<\/p>\n<p>And, I got quite a kick out of some of the comments.<\/p>\n<p>Like, for example:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>\u201cIf this were true, then people like John McCain would have become like his captors.\u201d<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>(Totes!)<\/p>\n<p>Or\u2026<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>\u201cDoes a minister become the sinner?\u201d<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>(Happens all the time\u2026 mayhaps the minister should read what Paul wrote about kicking unrepentant sinners out of the church?)<\/p>\n<p>Or\u2026<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>\u201cI only hangout with my Facebook friends and I don&#8217;t think that they are \u2018pessimistic losers\u2019\u201d.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>(Defensive, much, brah?)<\/p>\n<p>Or\u2026 another guy nattering aimlessly about Budda.<\/p>\n<p>(Basically typing to hear himself write.)<\/p>\n<p>And, my personal favorite:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cPeople should realize Ben takes this extreme, controversial stance as a marketing ploy.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Methinks it takes living in a mighty thick social media bubble to call this oft-repeated concept touted by multiple religions, philosophers, sociologists, psychologists, and even criminologists an \u201cextreme\u201d and \u201ccontroversial\u201d stance.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, a fun time was had by all.<\/p>\n<p>(Well, me, anyways.)<\/p>\n<p>And, so it is.<\/p>\n<p>Speaking of extreme and controversial stances:<\/p>\n<p>One thing I do that sends the mush cookie marketers out into the streets weeping and gnashing their teeth is sell every single day in my emails.<\/p>\n<p>Why do I do this?<\/p>\n<p>Because it works.<\/p>\n<p>And, my \u201cEmail Players\u201d newsletter shows you how to write daily emails (or multiple daily emails) without straining, struggling, or looking like a worthless hack swiping and copying anyone else.<\/p>\n<p>It ain\u2019t rocket science.<\/p>\n<p>But, it requires daily work.<\/p>\n<p>And daily consistency.<\/p>\n<p>And, a daily desire to make sales.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t got those things?<\/p>\n<p>Then, I can\u2019t help you.<\/p>\n<p>Go away.<\/p>\n<p>Shoo.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re dismissed.<\/p>\n<p>Otherwise, if interested, go ye here for more information:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.EmailPlayers.com\"><strong>www.EmailPlayers.com<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last week, I wrote an email about how you become like the people you spend all your time with. My example was, if you hang out with pessimistic losers, you\u2019ll become a pessimistic loser over time. Anyway, the esteemed A-list copywriter Bob Bly shared it on Facebook. 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