True story from my Wine Villains event last July:<\/p>\n
The day after the event, we all went to a winery. And \u201cEmail Players\u201d subscriber, fire-breathing feminist, card-carrying Trump hater, and A-list copywriter (with a list of controls longer than the Clinton machine death count) Kim Krause Schwalm said:<\/p>\n
(Paraphrased, based on memory)<\/p>\n
\u201cBen, people think of you as a misogynist and sexist, but there are a lot of girls here to see you at Wine Villains. You obviously don\u2019t hate women, you want to help women.\u201d<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n
My answer?<\/p>\n
I don\u2019t want to help *women*.<\/p>\n
I want to help people.<\/p>\n
Women just need the most help\u2026<\/p>\n
Anyway, here\u2019s the point:<\/p>\n
I have found that most chicks in this bid\u2019niz can\u2019t stand me. But, the small number who do, are insanely (in a good way, of course) loyal, and some of the best customers I have… who implement, profit handsomely from, and run with the information I teach them.<\/p>\n
And they are this way (I believe) because:<\/p>\n
1. I don\u2019t put them on a pedestal<\/p>\n
2. I don\u2019t try to charm them<\/p>\n
(If anything, I try to repel people, but that\u2019s another email\u2026)<\/p>\n
3. If they’re mucking up I tell them what they don\u2019t want to hear, instead of going out of my way to supplicate to them (like practically every man in their lives does) and not try to hurt their feelings \u2014 something the Facebook attention seekers, drama queens, and amusingly insecure \u201cI give zero fugks!\u201d chest-pounding chicks can\u2019t stand.<\/p>\n
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In other words, I treat them like I treat guys.<\/p>\n
Anyway, why should you care about any of this?<\/p>\n
Probably you shouldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n
But maybe someone needed to hear it\u2026<\/p>\n
Now, on to the fun stuff:<\/p>\n
Me pitching you.<\/p>\n
If you want to learn my evil misogynist email copywriting ways, have a ball using them, and make a lot of sales implementing them, check out the \u201cEmail Players\u201d newsletter by hitting the jump here:<\/p>\n