{"id":13,"date":"2006-09-06T17:41:00","date_gmt":"2006-09-06T22:41:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=14"},"modified":"2006-09-06T17:41:00","modified_gmt":"2006-09-06T22:41:00","slug":"how-to-arrange-it-so-nobody-ever-wants-to-leave-your-list","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/how-to-arrange-it-so-nobody-ever-wants-to-leave-your-list\/","title":{"rendered":"How To \u201cArrange\u201d It So Nobody Ever Wants To Leave Your List"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A little while back, a friend of mine asked me how to sell to his e-newsletter list without coming off as being pushy, obnoxious and caring only about extracting as much cash as possible from his customers.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t blame him for being concerned, either.<\/p>\n<p>People are unsubscribing left and right from e-newsletters and lists who do nothing but sell, sell, sell.<\/p>\n<p>But here&#8217;s the thing&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>All the &#8220;selling&#8221; isn&#8217;t the necessarily the problem.<\/p>\n<p>The problem is usually what&#8217;s being sold and to who.<\/p>\n<p>Let me explain what I mean:<\/p>\n<p>Three days per week I like to make a brisk, ten mile bike ride.<\/p>\n<p>Only problem is, I live in an area that, during the summer, is full of annoying little thorns that get lodged into your tires and cause slow leaks.<\/p>\n<p>This happened a few times to me over the past summer.<\/p>\n<p>The first time I changed the tube myself.<\/p>\n<p>The second time (a couple weeks later) I took it to a local bike shop.  The guy fixed it and we went our merry way.<\/p>\n<p>The third time (just a few days later) it happened yet again&#8230;and I brought it to the shop again.<\/p>\n<p>This time was actually a pain for me, because I had a lot of stuff to do that week, and didn&#8217;t want to mess around taking a bike to and from the shop.<\/p>\n<p>Luckily, there was a different guy working that day.<\/p>\n<p>And before he changed the tube he said, <em>&#8220;We get a TON of tire repair jobs like this in the summer.  Do you want me to put on a tube with a sealant inside?  It&#8217;s a little more expensive, but when a thorn gets in there, the sealant fills up the hole and you won&#8217;t even know it happened.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;You&#8217;re kidding me, right?&#8221;<\/em> I asked.  I had no idea this thing existed (shows how much I know about bikes).<\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;And if you really want to make sure this never happens again, we have special tires that are almost impossible for these little thorns to puncture&#8230;&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Long story short:<\/p>\n<p>I bought both the tires and special sealant tubes on the spot, and have not had a problem since.<\/p>\n<p>Now, here&#8217;s what&#8217;s important about this for you as an Internet marketer:<\/p>\n<p>When I left the bike shop, I was actually <u>mad<\/u> the first guy didn&#8217;t try and sell me the special sealant tubes or puncture-proof tires.<\/p>\n<p>If he had sold me on the tube and tires I wouldn&#8217;t have had the hole, and I wouldn&#8217;t have had to take another day to drop off and pick up my bike.<\/p>\n<p>And that&#8217;s the point.<\/p>\n<p>Are you selling your list things they want?<\/p>\n<p>Things that will make their lives easier?<\/p>\n<p>Things they may not even realize exist right now&#8230; but will be happy and thrilled to buy once you show them?<\/p>\n<p>If not, then you should be worried people thinking you&#8217;re just another <strong><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/interview-with-marketing-insider-ray-edwards\" rel=\"noopener\">Internet marketing<\/a><\/strong> &#8220;hawk&#8221; only out for money.<\/p>\n<p>Because you probably are annoying people, and you probably are one or two emails away from a bunch of potential buyers leaving you at any given time.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>If you simply discover what your list wants and aren&#8217;t getting&#8230; and if you simply offer those things to your list for now on&#8230; then you have <u>nothing<\/u> to worry about.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re not inconveniencing anyone and you&#8217;re not coming off as a greedy, money-hungry jerk, either.<\/p>\n<p>Chances are you&#8217;re a <em>bright spot<\/em> in their day &#8212; even as they fork over their hard-earned money to you.<\/p>\n<p>If you don&#8217;t believe me, think about the ads you buy from selling you things you really want that genuinely solve a problem in your life.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t you feel almost a sense of&#8230; well&#8230; <em>gratitude<\/em>&#8230; towards the company that sells it to you?<\/p>\n<p>I know I do.<\/p>\n<p>I can&#8217;t help but think the guy who sold me the tires and tubes did me a huge favor.  I&#8217;m always grateful whenever I see one of those stupid thorns on the bike path.<\/p>\n<p>And if you simply sell your list the things they want like this&#8230; you won&#8217;t have to worry about mass number of people leaving.<\/p>\n<p>People will be <u>happy<\/u> to hear from you&#8230;instead of being sick of hearing from you.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A little while back, a friend of mine asked me how to sell to his e-newsletter list without coming off as being pushy, obnoxious and caring only about extracting as much cash as possible from his customers. I don&#8217;t blame him for being concerned, either. 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