{"id":13968,"date":"2019-10-30T16:45:56","date_gmt":"2019-10-30T23:45:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=13968"},"modified":"2019-10-30T16:45:56","modified_gmt":"2019-10-30T23:45:56","slug":"the-spooky-ghost-coach-haunting-your-inbox","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/the-spooky-ghost-coach-haunting-your-inbox\/","title":{"rendered":"The Spooky Ghost Coach Haunting Your Inbox"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cEmail Players\u201d subscriber Petr The Affiliate pops in to say:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>Yo Ben,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>you probably do not care and I might just be bothering you with this, but do you know you\u2019re actually a great \u201cghost\u201d coach?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Here\u2019s what I mean:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>As an Email Player I know I can basically ask you anything and as much as I want (within reason). But having followed your emails, podcasts and all for 6+ years and having bought and gone through many of your products (for example I\u2019ve watched the entire original Copy Slacker series 7 times), I can quite confidently guess what your answer will be.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>So my mental process goes like:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>1. I get stuck on some business problem.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>2. If it\u2019s something you could help with I think up a question for you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>3. I let it sit a while and 99% of the time later realize you had either talked about somewhere in the past or knowing your philosophy I deduce your answer (i.e. you had trained me how to think about it).<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>4. I realize I do not need to bother you with my question. (I remember your EP rule \u201cthere are no stupid answers, only stupid questions\u201d + I remember the rule from my martial arts days that the pupil should never bother the teacher with trivial questions, forcing him to learn to think and learn for himself.)<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>So the actual option of being able to ask you makes me think harder about what I want to ask, which at the same time usually helps me to come up with the proper answer.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>I don\u2019t know why I\u2019m writing this. Maybe it\u2019s just my urge to let the teacher know the pupil is doing well under your guidance and discipline.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>And the Teacher appreciates it, my loyal Disciple.<\/p>\n<p>In other news:<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m chomping at that old bit to send the 100th issue of \u201cEmail Players\u201d to the printer tomorrow, which is the deadline to get it.<\/p>\n<p>To subscribe in time hit that devious link below:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.EmailPlayers.com\"><strong>www.EmailPlayers.com<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cEmail Players\u201d subscriber Petr The Affiliate pops in to say: Yo Ben, you probably do not care and I might just be bothering you with this, but do you know you\u2019re actually a great \u201cghost\u201d coach? Here\u2019s what I mean: As an Email Player I know I can basically ask you anything and as much [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-13968","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-inner-game"},"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13968","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13968"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13968\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13968"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13968"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13968"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}