{"id":14788,"date":"2022-02-21T03:45:14","date_gmt":"2022-02-21T11:45:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=14788"},"modified":"2022-02-21T03:45:14","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T11:45:14","slug":"an-open-letter-to-the-imbalanced-obsessed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/an-open-letter-to-the-imbalanced-obsessed\/","title":{"rendered":"An Open Letter To The Imbalanced &#038; Obsessed"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Last month Stefania and I had a weekend meeting here at the house for the software companies we are embroiled in these days. Troy Broussard came here with Tom Beal who does a lot of work with us, and Nicole English (our Operations Manager) was on Zoom from Australia.<\/p>\n<p>And for three days we hashed out all kinds of ideas &amp; plans.<\/p>\n<p>During which the topic of \u201cbalance\u201d came up.<\/p>\n<p>Or, rather, imbalance.<\/p>\n<p>Turns out almost the entire software team (all exceptionally brilliant) is imbalanced. The head developer especially so \u2014 as he is a true savant and can do the work of 10 coders in 1\/10 of the time, and still have multiple other projects going simultaneously, and is mentally able to keep track of it all.<\/p>\n<p>Not even an exaggeration.<\/p>\n<p>Guy can\u2019t turn his brain off if he wanted to.<\/p>\n<p>And, of course, the inevitable crash from operating at that level is as devastating as the brilliant times are productive.<\/p>\n<p>Troy is much the same way, which I can attest to.<\/p>\n<p>But when I laughed at these guys and told them how that sucks, and thankfully I am balanced, everyone in the room looked at me like I was crazy.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cUhm Ben,\u201d said Nicole, \u201cyou\u2019re not at all balanced.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>i.e., waking up at 1 or 2 am, gagging down (literally) 150 capsules per day, 3+ hours of hiking per day 3-4 days per week literally to the point of having to get a new pair of shoes every other month just to function, and be completely alone for at least 12-14 hours per day to feel somewhat human.<\/p>\n<p>And so it is.<\/p>\n<p>All of us in that room, and everyone on the team, is completely imbalanced.<\/p>\n<p>Some in healthier ways than others.<\/p>\n<p>And whether or not that is ultimately a \u201cgood\u201d or \u201cbad\u201d thing depends on the when and the what. But there is a good chance anyone reading this who can\u2019t do things without going to extremes, has a hard time quieting your brain, and has a constant life-or-death battle with burnout &amp; obsessively works to get as much done in as little time as humanly possible&#8230; while always slipping farther and farther behind where you want to be at in business or other goals, is the same way.<\/p>\n<p>If that\u2019s you, I have no Yoda-like words of wisdom.<\/p>\n<p>We all cope in our own little ways.<\/p>\n<p>And what works for me won\u2019t necessarily work for you.<\/p>\n<p>One of the things that works for me though is writing a lot.<\/p>\n<p>Not just emails though.<\/p>\n<p>But writing books, Email Players issues, comicbook scripts (for comicbook-style ads that sell things as well as a graphic novelization of my Zombie Cop book I am working on), and some epic fantasy fiction I\u2019ve been engaging in lately.<\/p>\n<p>The most profitable or those activities is the emails.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s what my Email Players newsletter is all about.<\/p>\n<p>Although it\u2019s far more strategical than tactical.<\/p>\n<p>Thus, no hacks, swipes, or tricks.<\/p>\n<p>Just broad, sweeping email strategies you can use with what I teach in the book I send to new subscribers to ratchet-up them email profits of yours.<\/p>\n<p>To learn more, go here:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.EmailPlayers.com\"><strong>www.EmailPlayers.com<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last month Stefania and I had a weekend meeting here at the house for the software companies we are embroiled in these days. 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