{"id":1576,"date":"2009-02-25T01:04:45","date_gmt":"2009-02-25T01:04:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=1576"},"modified":"2009-02-25T01:04:45","modified_gmt":"2009-02-25T01:04:45","slug":"seething-email-stalkers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/seething-email-stalkers\/","title":{"rendered":"Seething Email Stalkers"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Got an interesting (and timely) question today.<\/p>\n<p>If you do any email marketing, you may find it helpful:<\/p>\n<p><strong>QUESTION: <\/strong> Do you ever get a lot of flack when you write controversial things on your blog and in your emails?  I think it is great even when I disagree with you but I would be afraid of attracting the wrong kind of attention.  However, in my niche I think it would do very well.<\/p>\n<p>What are your thoughts on this matter?<\/p>\n<p><strong>BEN:<\/strong>  Yes, I get &#8220;flack&#8221; &#8212; and often.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, I&#8217;ve been hearing from all kinds of weirdos lately.  <\/p>\n<p>Take for example, last weekend.  <\/p>\n<p>Some dude took exception (and that&#8217;s putting it mildly) with one of my emails.  Was REALLY angry about it.  Kept sending me these <em>inane<\/em>, rambling emails and blog comments yammering on and on &#8212; never getting to the point, just accusing, finger-pointing and making all kinds of personal attacks.<\/p>\n<p>(My blog&#8217;s spam filter even ate one of his comments. Which tells you something about what he might have been saying&#8230;)<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, it was actually kinda amusing at first.  <\/p>\n<p>But it got old pretty quick, and I just started deleting his emails and blog thread comments on sight &#8212; not even bothering to read &#8217;em.<\/p>\n<p>And that&#8217;s what I recommend if that happens to you:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Simply delete, ignore, and remove their names from your list.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And just realize controversy is definitely a double-edged sword.<\/p>\n<p>It WILL get you attention &#8212; which is good.<\/p>\n<p>But some of that attention is going to be from people who mindlessly <em>hate<\/em> everything about you for no reason.<\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t talk to people like that.  And they never listen &#8212; so responding is a complete waste of time.<\/p>\n<p>But you know what?<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s <strong>GOOD<\/strong> when that happens.<\/p>\n<p>For one thing, it means you&#8217;re probably doing something <em>right<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>And it also makes you appreciate the <em>sane<\/em> people even more \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n<p><strong>P.S.<\/strong> I&#8217;m releasing <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.CopywritingGrabBag.com\">The Copywriting Grab Bag<\/a><\/strong> tomorrow.<\/p>\n<p>If you are on the discount notification list, I&#8217;ll be sending you an email with a special coupon code good for 24 hours:<\/p>\n<p><strong><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.CopywritingGrabBag.com\">www.CopywritingGrabBag.com<\/a><\/div>\n<p><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Got an interesting (and timely) question today. If you do any email marketing, you may find it helpful: QUESTION: Do you ever get a lot of flack when you write controversial things on your blog and in your emails? I think it is great even when I disagree with you but I would be afraid [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1576","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-copywriting-and-sales-letters"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1576","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1576"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1576\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1576"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1576"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1576"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}