{"id":15986,"date":"2024-03-04T01:10:12","date_gmt":"2024-03-04T01:10:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=15986"},"modified":"2024-03-04T01:10:12","modified_gmt":"2024-03-04T01:10:12","slug":"why-trolls-are-just-one-or-two-rejections-away-from-putting-on-a-dress","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/why-trolls-are-just-one-or-two-rejections-away-from-putting-on-a-dress\/","title":{"rendered":"Why trolls are just one or two rejections away from putting on a dress"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A troll displays his true feelings for me:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>Yeah, you know what?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Fuck Off!\u00a0 You&#8217;re a little bitch!\u00a0 Yeah, you good at what you do, and you&#8217;re newsletter is excellent, but you yourself are a colossal douche!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>It&#8217;s not worth the headache&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>And besides, I have both your books and your AWAI 10-minute email course to use without having to put up with your super-douch, whiny ass beta-male little bitch personality.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ha ha!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>So Fuck You!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Fuck Off!\u00a0 Nobody&#8217;s worth that much trouble.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Asshole\u00a0 ?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Sometimes people think I&#8217;m joking or exaggerating when I say a lot of online trolls are just one or two more rejections away from putting on a dress.<\/p>\n<p>But if anything, I believe I am understating it.<\/p>\n<p>The troll above literally sounds like a scorned woman sending a crazy text to the guy who dumped her, complete with all the the self-loathing, emotional projection, and irrational reaction to rejection. All of which is very often what drives all the online troll\u2019s anger, jealousy, &amp; repulsiveness. In his case, my angry admirer above was someone who had left Email Players, tried to come back, was told No\u2026 and instead of moving on with dignity decided to triple down on the very attributes that torment him.<\/p>\n<p>And it\u2019s all part &amp; parcel of the online troll\u2019s pathology.<\/p>\n<p>They literally have female thought patterns.<\/p>\n<p>That is good &amp; normal for women to have female thought patterns, of course.<\/p>\n<p>But for guys it&#8217;s as creepy as them putting on a dress and hanging out inside girls bathrooms. It\u2019s also why it&#8217;s impossible for me to take any of them seriously, or get offended by them, or feel even the slightest tinge of guilt about marginalizing &amp; monetizing them, and make them part of my business&#8217; \u201clore\u201d for content, emails, future books, etc.<\/p>\n<p>Never look a gift troll in the mouth I always say.<\/p>\n<p>To do otherwise would be undignified&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>To learn more about the paid Email Players newsletter go here:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.BenSettle.com\/alt\"><strong>www.EmailPlayers.com<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A troll displays his true feelings for me: Yeah, you know what? Fuck Off!\u00a0 You&#8217;re a little bitch!\u00a0 Yeah, you good at what you do, and you&#8217;re newsletter is excellent, but you yourself are a colossal douche! It&#8217;s not worth the headache&#8230; And besides, I have both your books and your AWAI 10-minute email course [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,9,11],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-15986","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-business-building","7":"category-email-marketing","8":"category-inner-game"},"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15986","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15986"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15986\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15999,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15986\/revisions\/15999"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15986"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15986"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15986"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}