{"id":18589,"date":"2026-02-24T12:37:37","date_gmt":"2026-02-24T12:37:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=18589"},"modified":"2026-02-24T12:37:45","modified_gmt":"2026-02-24T12:37:45","slug":"the-concubine-who-charges-men-6000-for-love-advice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/the-concubine-who-charges-men-6000-for-love-advice\/","title":{"rendered":"The concubine who charges men \u00a36,000 for love advice"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s \u201cprep\u201d you for Valentines Day tomorrow with a real story:<\/p>\n<p>Last year, so-called influencer Sadia Khan was making the news and was on many social media news feeds. The reason why is, she was (maybe still does?) charging men at fat \u00a36,000 for dating advice&#8230; only for everyone to find out she was merely a side chick &#8211; ie second fiddle &#8211; of a married man.<\/p>\n<p>Truth really is more entertaining than fiction in this case.<\/p>\n<p>She was teaching men how to be \u201chigh value\u201d to attract \u201chigh value\u201d women.<\/p>\n<p>Apparently this was all verified via leaked text messages and audio.<\/p>\n<p>My opinion:<\/p>\n<p>It does not not now, and it never has, made any sense whatsoever for men to ever, under any circumstance and without any exceptions, get dating or romance advice from women.<\/p>\n<p>No, I don\u2019t care if you she has \u201clots of guy friends.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Or if she grew up with 10 brothers.<\/p>\n<p>Or any other rationalization hamster spun reason.<\/p>\n<p>Women don&#8217;t know how to get a woman because they never had to get one before. So it\u2019s asking the deer how to hunt it, instead of asking the hunter who regularly bags deer. The deer doesn&#8217;t know, and can&#8217;t know, even if it thinks it knows, and insists it knows, or, yes, charges \u00a36,000+ a pop for their help to tell you what they know.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBut Ben what about lesbians lol?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>They don&#8217;t know how to advise a guy either.<\/p>\n<p>At best, they only know how to catch other lesbians&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>And so it goes.<\/p>\n<p>To learn more about the paid Email Players newsletter go here:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.BenSettle.com\/alt\"><strong>www.BenSettle.com\/alt<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s \u201cprep\u201d you for Valentines Day tomorrow with a real story: Last year, so-called influencer Sadia Khan was making the news and was on many social media news feeds. The reason why is, she was (maybe still does?) charging men at fat \u00a36,000 for dating advice&#8230; only for everyone to find out she was merely [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[11,14],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-18589","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-inner-game","7":"category-sales-marketing"},"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18589","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18589"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18589\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18610,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18589\/revisions\/18610"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18589"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18589"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18589"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}