{"id":2431,"date":"2009-10-02T14:38:44","date_gmt":"2009-10-02T14:38:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=2431"},"modified":"2009-10-02T14:38:44","modified_gmt":"2009-10-02T14:38:44","slug":"my-uncensored-opinion-of-nlp","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/my-uncensored-opinion-of-nlp\/","title":{"rendered":"My Uncensored Opinion Of NLP"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Lately, people have been asking me about NLP.<\/p>\n<p>Is it really some near-magical persuasion technique that lets you all but <em>control<\/em> someone&#8217;s mind?  <\/p>\n<p>Or is it just more overhyped goo-roo nonsense?<\/p>\n<p>My answer?<\/p>\n<p>I have no idea, either way. <\/p>\n<p>All I know about NLP is the subject <em>bores<\/em> me to tears &#8212; despite trying to learn about it from people I consider to be excellent teachers.<\/p>\n<p>However, I WILL say this:<\/p>\n<p>While it may indeed be the second coming of John Caples or Frank Bettger, I seriously doubt it&#8217;ll do as much for you as just mastering the <em>fundamentals<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Let me give you one of my favorite examples. <\/p>\n<p>Something I originally heard while interviewing top copywriting and marketing pro Doug D&#8217;Anna for my <strong><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.copywritinggrabbag.com\" rel=\"noopener\">Copywriting Grab Bag<\/a><\/strong> book.<\/p>\n<p>He gave what I call his &#8220;dog cookie secret&#8221;, and it goes like this:<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s say you have a dog and you want him to come to you.  You can try to <em>coax<\/em> the dog to come to you using all the latest &#8220;cutting edge&#8221; persuasion and manipulation tricks.  Or&#8230; you can just hold up his favorite <em>cookie<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Which do you think will get the job done better?<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, here&#8217;s the point:<\/p>\n<p>If NLP works for you, then by all means USE it.  <\/p>\n<p>But whether you use it or not, you can never go wrong with this &#8220;oldie but goodie&#8221; sales principle that&#8217;s worked for thousands of years:<\/p>\n<p><strong><em><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8220;Discover what folks want<br \/>\nand show them how to get it.&#8221;<\/div>\n<p><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s simple and works like a charm every time.<\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n<p><strong>P.S.<\/strong> For 101 proven sales principles that are easy to use and work like gangbusters, check out my upcoming CD club at:<\/p>\n<p><strong><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.crackerjackselling.com\" rel=\"noopener\">www.CrackerjackSelling.com<\/a><\/div>\n<p><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Lately, people have been asking me about NLP. Is it really some near-magical persuasion technique that lets you all but control someone&#8217;s mind? Or is it just more overhyped goo-roo nonsense? My answer? I have no idea, either way. All I know about NLP is the subject bores me to tears &#8212; despite trying to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[8,14],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2431","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-copywriting-and-sales-letters","category-sales-marketing"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2431","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2431"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2431\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2431"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2431"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2431"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}