{"id":2619,"date":"2009-11-12T07:54:33","date_gmt":"2009-11-12T15:54:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=2619"},"modified":"2009-11-12T07:54:33","modified_gmt":"2009-11-12T15:54:33","slug":"arrogance-is-bliss","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/arrogance-is-bliss\/","title":{"rendered":"Arrogance Is Bliss"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Recently, I had a chat with a marketing friend about goo-roos.<\/p>\n<p>And he was telling me about this marketer he knows who&#8217;s just really, really (REALLY) arrogant. <\/p>\n<p>On an &#8220;arrogance scale&#8221; of 1-10, he&#8217;s a solid 17.<\/p>\n<p>Now, neither of us was judging this guy.<\/p>\n<p>Frankly, the dude seems to WANT to be seen as arrogant.  Probably as part of his positioning or brand or whatever. Which is perfectly fine &#8212; I mean, the way I see it, if someone wants to live in sweet, blissful arrogance who am I to stand in their way?<\/p>\n<p>But here&#8217;s the problem:<\/p>\n<p>There are thousands of brand new marketers popping up on the scene every day.  <\/p>\n<p>And many times all they are seeing is one arrogant goo-roo after another <em>exaggerating<\/em>, <em>hyping<\/em> and even <em>lying<\/em> through their teeth.<\/p>\n<p>Like, for example, about inflated sales letter response rates.<\/p>\n<p>Or how many people are on their list.<\/p>\n<p>Or how much moola they made (funny how they usually only mention <em>gross<\/em> sales, and not <em>net<\/em> profit&#8230;)<\/p>\n<p>And so on, and so forth.<\/p>\n<p>My point?<\/p>\n<p>Lots (too many) of people are thinking they need to do the same thing &#8212; to brag and be &#8220;cool&#8221; like the goo-roos so they can impress their customers with their wonderfulness.  <\/p>\n<p>But you know what?<\/p>\n<p>The real experts don&#8217;t just talk about their successes.<\/p>\n<p><strong>They brag about heir FAILURES, too.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In fact, sometimes they brag MORE about their <em>failures<\/em> than their successes. Because usually the bigger the failure, the bigger the discovery they made that lead to their big success in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>So anyhoo, just something to think about.<\/p>\n<p>Next time you see some arrogant goo-roo strutting around like a miserly peacock counting its money, you may want to take what they say with a grain of salt.<\/p>\n<p>This may not be true <em>all<\/em> the time.<\/p>\n<p>But if they&#8217;re strutting, they could very well be struggling, too.<\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n<p><strong>P.S.<\/strong> You can learn from all kinds of non-arrogant, &#8220;for real&#8221; marketing geniuses in the appendixes inside &#8220;The Copywriting Grab Bag&#8221;:<\/p>\n<p><strong><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.CopywritingGrabBag.com\" rel=\"noopener\">www.CopywritingGrabBag.com<\/a><\/div>\n<p><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Recently, I had a chat with a marketing friend about goo-roos. 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