{"id":3137,"date":"2014-10-18T06:30:05","date_gmt":"2014-10-18T13:30:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=3137"},"modified":"2014-10-18T06:30:05","modified_gmt":"2014-10-18T13:30:05","slug":"interview-with-a-time-vampire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/interview-with-a-time-vampire\/","title":{"rendered":"Interview With A Time Vampire"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You ever meet a &#8220;time vampire?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Dan Kennedy seems to talk about them a lot.<\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;re nasty, <em>dangerous<\/em> things, too.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, I can think of one case where one basically &#8220;stole&#8221; several thousands smackeroos right out of my pocket.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s what happened:<\/p>\n<p>About 10 years ago, a marketer emailed me about hiring me for some projects. He seemed a decent fellow &#8212; well spoken, professional, serious. And he wanted to &#8220;chat&#8221; for a few minutes about his project to see if I was the right copywriter for ye olde copywriting job.<\/p>\n<p>So we jumped on the phone and I did my thing.<\/p>\n<p><strong>And boy was I on FIRE!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I thought I could sell him by &#8220;wowing&#8221; him with my brilliance, and giving him my <em>best<\/em> ideas for his product, advertising and marketing strategies. And at the end of the call&#8230; after giving up the &#8220;goods&#8221; like that&#8230; I figured, how could this dude NOT hire me to write his advertising?<\/p>\n<p>Well, guess what?<\/p>\n<p>He didn&#8217;t hire me.<\/p>\n<p>I never made a dime from the effort.<\/p>\n<p><strong>And I wasted a lot of <em>time<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s when I knew Dan Kennedy&#8217;s &#8220;time vampires&#8221; ARE real.<\/p>\n<p>They DO skim the shadows.<\/p>\n<p>And, if you let them, they WILL sink their teeth into your neck and drink deeply of your ideas, solutions and knowledge without giving you one red cent in return.<\/p>\n<p>But you know what the really <em>bizarre<\/em> part is?<\/p>\n<p>They look, act and sound &#8220;successful&#8221; &#8212; like serious <em>players<\/em>, instead of bottom-feeding blood thirsty <em>villains<\/em>. Which is why the best way to protect yourself from time vampires is the same way people do it in the movies:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Don&#8217;t even invite them in!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Just like traditional vampires, time vampires can only attack you if you &#8220;invite&#8221; them in &#8212; which is why I never get on the phone with anyone for free anymore.<\/p>\n<p>I suggest you do the same thing, too.<\/p>\n<p>Protect your time like it&#8217;s your <em>life<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>And whatever you do&#8230; don&#8217;t give it away free.<\/p>\n<p>And speaking of time&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Tomorrow&#8217;s &#8220;Ben Settle Show&#8221; talks about what I call time hoes.<\/p>\n<p>What they are.<\/p>\n<p>Why they&#8217;re always broke.<\/p>\n<p>And, why no client wants to &#8220;wife&#8221; them up (i.e. pay them).<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;ll be up tomorrow.<\/p>\n<p>Download past shows here:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.BenSettleShow.com\/itunes\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>www.BenSettleShow.com\/itunes<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You ever meet a &#8220;time vampire?&#8221; Dan Kennedy seems to talk about them a lot. 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Here&#8217;s what happened: About 10 years ago, a marketer emailed me about hiring me for [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[8,14],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3137","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-copywriting-and-sales-letters","category-sales-marketing"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3137","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3137"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3137\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3137"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3137"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3137"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}