{"id":4091,"date":"2012-12-18T06:00:22","date_gmt":"2012-12-18T14:00:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=4091"},"modified":"2012-12-18T06:00:22","modified_gmt":"2012-12-18T14:00:22","slug":"how-to-find-your-writing-voice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/how-to-find-your-writing-voice\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Find Your Writing &#8220;Voice&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A subscriber inquires&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>QUESTION:<\/strong> When I read your material, it feels like you&#8217;re right there talking to me in person. I know you didn&#8217;t come out the womb with a pen in hand writing like this, so what did you do to develop your writing style.<\/p>\n<p><strong>BEN:<\/strong> I have three answers for you.<\/p>\n<p>People serious about wanting to get better at writing will bite the bullet and OBEY the following advice.  <\/p>\n<p>And everyone else?<\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;ll SPURN it!<\/p>\n<p>Figure it&#8217;s too hard.<\/p>\n<p>Pronounce it too much work.<\/p>\n<p>And resume their quest for a &#8220;shiny new object&#8221; way to write (like putting a book about writing under their pillow and learning via &#8220;osmosis&#8221;).<\/p>\n<p>Whatever the case, here&#8217;s the advice&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>1.  I mindlessly wrote Gary Halbert ads out by hand<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>That includes all his ads I could get my hands on&#8230; many of his newsletter issues (especially the ones that were disguised sales pitches) and even one of his books (The Boron Letters).<\/p>\n<p>I recommend doing this with your favorite copywriter.<\/p>\n<p>Especially mail order writers. <\/p>\n<p>(Stay way from Internet copywriters &#8212; too sloppy).<\/p>\n<p>The second answer is&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Write!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Write, write, write, write, write!<\/p>\n<p>The more you write, the better you&#8217;ll be.<\/p>\n<p>That whole 10,000 hours thing is really true (i.e. if you want to master something, do it for 10,000 hours).  This is why I suggest practicing via daily emails to your list &#8220;Email Players&#8221; &#8212; <strong><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.EmailPlayers.com\" rel=\"noopener\">www.EmailPlayers.com<\/a><\/strong> &#8212; style. Not only will you get better at writing extremely fast&#8230; but you&#8217;ll make some more of the green stuff, too. <\/p>\n<p>(&#8220;Earn while you learn&#8221;, baby!)<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. Write like you talk<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you want to write in a conversational tone&#8230; have a conversation with your audience.  <\/p>\n<p>Yes, warts and all.<\/p>\n<p>And that&#8217;s it.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe not the most inspiring advice.<\/p>\n<p>But hard work rarely is inspiring&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A subscriber inquires&#8230; QUESTION: When I read your material, it feels like you&#8217;re right there talking to me in person. I know you didn&#8217;t come out the womb with a pen in hand writing like this, so what did you do to develop your writing style. BEN: I have three answers for you. 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