{"id":4347,"date":"2013-04-09T06:00:31","date_gmt":"2013-04-09T13:00:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=4347"},"modified":"2013-04-09T06:00:31","modified_gmt":"2013-04-09T13:00:31","slug":"why-your-list-thinks-youre-a-spammer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/why-your-list-thinks-youre-a-spammer\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Your List Thinks You&#8217;re A Spammer"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Got a great email question while back.<\/p>\n<p>Here it is:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Ben, I have a list that I have been sending emails to monthly or bi-monthly when I have something to say. I do not want to annoy them! And yet I still get people complaining and calling me a spammer. I heard you say that doesn&#8217;t happen when mailing daily. How is that???&#8221;<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>That&#8217;s an excellent question.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe think of it like this:<\/p>\n<p>Your list is basically like an organism.<\/p>\n<p>You created it, and you built it.<\/p>\n<p>But then you starved it by not REGULARLY sending anything cool and fun and interesting to it, and so it turned against you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You gotta feed it, son.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t OVER feed it, of course.<\/p>\n<p>But you should feed it regularly &#8212; and yes, every day is ideal.<\/p>\n<p>Sure, maybe sometimes it will have indigestion and burp or fart on you, and make a stink over something you feed it, but mostly it&#8217;ll be happy and content and want more.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, that&#8217;s my take on it.<\/p>\n<p>The trick is the KIND of food you feed it.<\/p>\n<p>That is where my email system fits in.<\/p>\n<p>I always get amused by people who are on my list and think they can &#8220;reverse engineer&#8221; what I&#8217;m doing.<\/p>\n<p><strong>They ALWAYS get it wrong.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Every time.<\/p>\n<p>No exceptions.<\/p>\n<p>And it&#8217;s interesting watching people play email &#8220;T-ball&#8221; like that, when they could be playing in the big leagues, making real sales, regularly.<\/p>\n<p>Why mess around?<\/p>\n<p>Ain&#8217;t nuttin like the real thing, baby:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.EmailPlayers.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">www.EmailPlayers.com<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Got a great email question while back. 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