{"id":5107,"date":"2014-06-28T06:30:13","date_gmt":"2014-06-28T13:30:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=5107"},"modified":"2014-06-28T06:30:13","modified_gmt":"2014-06-28T13:30:13","slug":"why-freebie-seekers-are-the-nastiest-people-on-earth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/why-freebie-seekers-are-the-nastiest-people-on-earth\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Freebie Seekers Are The Nastiest People On Earth"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The year was 2006 AD.<\/p>\n<p>I had spent the prior 3 years following all the mainstream email goo-roo advice about giving away all your best information and teachings free in emails, to make people think, <em>&#8220;wow! if this is the free stuff, I wonder what&#8217;s in the PAID material&#8230;&#8221;<\/em> and eagerly awaiting you to sell something to them.<\/p>\n<p>I believed this advice blindly.<\/p>\n<p>And with all the furor of a goo-roo fanboy after an IM seminar.<\/p>\n<p>So that&#8217;s what I did:<\/p>\n<p>I sent out infrequent emails (one or two per month) giving away lots of cool information I&#8217;d learned and profited from and never, EVER asking anyone to buy something.<\/p>\n<p>That was, after all, the goo-roo way.<\/p>\n<p>Then&#8230; I did my first affiliate campaign.<\/p>\n<p>I was writing mainly to copywriters at the time.<\/p>\n<p>And they wanted to know how to get clients.<\/p>\n<p>That was the big hot button.<\/p>\n<p>And (conveniently) my buddy John Anghelache was getting ready to launch a course on the subject and asked if I&#8217;d mail for him. He said he was using a proven launch formula that had worked like gangbusters for him (it did) and I was anxious to let the &#8220;hounds&#8221; out on my list.<\/p>\n<p>After all, I KNEW they&#8217;d love the product.<\/p>\n<p>And since I never pitched, I KNEW they&#8217;d listen.<\/p>\n<p>So I let the emails fly!<\/p>\n<p>For the first time in 3 years a REAL sales pitch.<\/p>\n<p>But not just one pitch&#8230; several pitches.<\/p>\n<p>Some disguised.<\/p>\n<p>Some blatant.<\/p>\n<p>But all of them with a call to action.<\/p>\n<p>The result?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Hate mail GALORE, baby!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;re talking everything from &#8220;take me off your list!&#8221; to the old standby &#8220;fuck you&#8221; used by those Cheeto eating, porno-addicted 20-somethings still living in mommy&#8217;s basement.<\/p>\n<p>I must admit, it took me by surprise.<\/p>\n<p>What was the big deal?<\/p>\n<p>It was a solid product.<\/p>\n<p>I hardly EVER pitched my list.<\/p>\n<p>And shouldn&#8217;t they be &#8220;primed&#8221; to be wanting to buy from me like all the goo-roos said they&#8217;d be?<\/p>\n<p>I guess my list didn&#8217;t get the memo.<\/p>\n<p>They were PO&#8217;d.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, some bought.<\/p>\n<p>(More than I&#8217;d expected.)<\/p>\n<p>But the hostility was amazing.<\/p>\n<p>And that&#8217;s when I learned:<\/p>\n<p>Freebie seekers are amongst the nastiest, most class-less people you&#8217;ll ever meet. They have no gratitude. No work ethic. And, if you don&#8217;t give them everything they want fast, free and NOW, they turn into little pink whiny hulks screaming profanity and insults at you.<\/p>\n<p>Kind of amusing thinking about it now.<\/p>\n<p>And today I take pleasure in riling them up.<\/p>\n<p>(They don&#8217;t last long on my list&#8230;)<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, why am I bringing this up?<\/p>\n<p>Because that&#8217;s just one of many reasons why giving away lots of\u00a0free stuff is not only stoopid&#8230; but will keep you broke (or,\u00a0broker, at least).<\/p>\n<p>And guess what?<\/p>\n<p>I get deep into this subject on tomorrow&#8217;s &#8220;Ben Settle Show&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>It ain&#8217;t gonna make freebie seekers happy.<\/p>\n<p>But then again, who cares about them, anyway?<\/p>\n<p>I sho&#8217; as hellz don&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>And, after tomorrow, neither will you.<\/p>\n<p>Watch for my signal tomorrow.<\/p>\n<p>In the meantime, listen to past episodes here:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.BenSettleShow.com\/itunes\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>www.BenSettleShow.com\/itunes<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The year was 2006 AD. 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