{"id":5456,"date":"2012-03-02T06:00:15","date_gmt":"2012-03-02T14:00:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=5456"},"modified":"2012-03-02T06:00:15","modified_gmt":"2012-03-02T14:00:15","slug":"stop-playing-with-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/stop-playing-with-yourself\/","title":{"rendered":"Stop Playing With Yourself"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>No, no, no&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not talking about THAT.<\/p>\n<p>(Get your mind out of the <em>gutter<\/em>&#8230;)<\/p>\n<p>Listen:<\/p>\n<p>One of the best success quotes I&#8217;ve ever heard is from pro quarterback (and NFL Hall-Of-Famer) Steve Young when he said:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;The principle is competing against yourself. It&#8217;s about self improvement, about being better than you were the day before.&#8221;<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Oh yeah, baby!<\/p>\n<p>That quote is solid gold.<\/p>\n<p>When you compete against yourself&#8230; ignore what everyone else is doing&#8230; and instead keep trying to only beat your own &#8220;records&#8221;&#8230; how can you possibly lose?<\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s impossible.<\/p>\n<p>You can ONLY get better and more successful.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve been applying this daily for 10 years and I can tell you, there is NO better way to master and excel at what you do than by striving to always do better than your last best accomplishment.<\/p>\n<p><strong>To play the game better than you did before.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And to strive to do even BETTER the next time.<\/p>\n<p>The philosophy works, mi amigo.<\/p>\n<p>But, you know what?<\/p>\n<p>As good as this works&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s also a time to do the exact polar OPPOSITE &#8212; and play the game against others.<\/p>\n<p>Look, none of my colleagues knows this.<\/p>\n<p>(Guess they will now&#8230;)<\/p>\n<p>But I&#8217;ve spent the past few years &#8220;competing&#8221; (silently, in my mind) with many of them.<\/p>\n<p>Not in a &#8220;I hope they lose!&#8221; kinda way.<\/p>\n<p>But in a &#8220;how can I outdo what they just did?&#8221; way.<\/p>\n<p>For example:<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;d see a sales letter someone in one of my mastermind groups wrote, and think, &#8220;that&#8217;s fraggin&#8217; brilliant &#8212; I gotta step up my game!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>And it&#8217;d motivate me.<\/p>\n<p>Push me to work harder.<\/p>\n<p>Dig deeper into my market and product.<\/p>\n<p>And result in nothing by my BEST effort.<\/p>\n<p>(Even if I could &#8220;get away&#8221; with dogging it&#8230;)<\/p>\n<p>It doesn&#8217;t take long of doing that to get good (really good!) at what you do and start sticking out from the bleating herd of wannabes.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, something to think about.<\/p>\n<p>Have yourself a great weekend.<\/p>\n<p>And don&#8217;t forget to check out:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.EmailPlayers.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">www.EmailPlayers.com<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>No, no, no&#8230; I&#8217;m not talking about THAT. 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