{"id":5456,"date":"2012-03-02T06:00:15","date_gmt":"2012-03-02T14:00:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=5456"},"modified":"2012-03-02T06:00:15","modified_gmt":"2012-03-02T14:00:15","slug":"stop-playing-with-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/stop-playing-with-yourself\/","title":{"rendered":"Stop Playing With Yourself"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>No, no, no&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not talking about THAT.<\/p>\n<p>(Get your mind out of the <em>gutter<\/em>&#8230;)<\/p>\n<p>Listen:<\/p>\n<p>One of the best success quotes I&#8217;ve ever heard is from pro quarterback (and NFL Hall-Of-Famer) Steve Young when he said:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;The principle is competing against yourself. It&#8217;s about self improvement, about being better than you were the day before.&#8221;<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Oh yeah, baby!<\/p>\n<p>That quote is solid gold.<\/p>\n<p>When you compete against yourself&#8230; ignore what everyone else is doing&#8230; and instead keep trying to only beat your own &#8220;records&#8221;&#8230; how can you possibly lose?<\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s impossible.<\/p>\n<p>You can ONLY get better and more successful.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve been applying this daily for 10 years and I can tell you, there is NO better way to master and excel at what you do than by striving to always do better than your last best accomplishment.<\/p>\n<p><strong>To play the game better than you did before.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And to strive to do even BETTER the next time.<\/p>\n<p>The philosophy works, mi amigo.<\/p>\n<p>But, you know what?<\/p>\n<p>As good as this works&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s also a time to do the exact polar OPPOSITE &#8212; and play the game against others.<\/p>\n<p>Look, none of my colleagues knows this.<\/p>\n<p>(Guess they will now&#8230;)<\/p>\n<p>But I&#8217;ve spent the past few years &#8220;competing&#8221; (silently, in my mind) with many of them.<\/p>\n<p>Not in a &#8220;I hope they lose!&#8221; kinda way.<\/p>\n<p>But in a &#8220;how can I outdo what they just did?&#8221; way.<\/p>\n<p>For example:<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;d see a sales letter someone in one of my mastermind groups wrote, and think, &#8220;that&#8217;s fraggin&#8217; brilliant &#8212; I gotta step up my game!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>And it&#8217;d motivate me.<\/p>\n<p>Push me to work harder.<\/p>\n<p>Dig deeper into my market and product.<\/p>\n<p>And result in nothing by my BEST effort.<\/p>\n<p>(Even if I could &#8220;get away&#8221; with dogging it&#8230;)<\/p>\n<p>It doesn&#8217;t take long of doing that to get good (really good!) at what you do and start sticking out from the bleating herd of wannabes.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, something to think about.<\/p>\n<p>Have yourself a great weekend.<\/p>\n<p>And don&#8217;t forget to check out:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.EmailPlayers.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">www.EmailPlayers.com<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>No, no, no&#8230; I&#8217;m not talking about THAT. (Get your mind out of the gutter&#8230;) Listen: One of the best success quotes I&#8217;ve ever heard is from pro quarterback (and NFL Hall-Of-Famer) Steve Young when he said: &#8220;The principle is competing against yourself. It&#8217;s about self improvement, about being better than you were the day [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-5456","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-email-marketing"},"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5456","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5456"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5456\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5456"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5456"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5456"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}