{"id":5731,"date":"2012-05-04T06:00:01","date_gmt":"2012-05-04T13:00:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=5731"},"modified":"2012-05-04T06:00:01","modified_gmt":"2012-05-04T13:00:01","slug":"how-to-profit-from-my-divorce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/how-to-profit-from-my-divorce\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Profit From My Divorce"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Not that it&#8217;s a huge deal anymore&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>But I am no longer married these days.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, the Nerd Girl and I parted ways 6 months ago. <\/p>\n<p>(So no emoting or sympathy necessary, it&#8217;s old newz.)<\/p>\n<p>And while everyone is doing 100% fine, there are also some extremely valuable lessons you can gleam from my experience that apply directly to business if you are looking for them. <\/p>\n<p>In fact, that&#8217;s the &#8220;warm-up&#8221; lesson:<\/p>\n<p>Always keeping your &#8220;antenna&#8221; up.<\/p>\n<p>Every email marketer should do this.<\/p>\n<p>And, in my case, I knew the minute it happened I&#8217;d end up writing about the experience eventually.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, enough warm up.<\/p>\n<p>Here are a few lessons to think about:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Lesson #1: Negative experiences are profitable<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m going to write about this later in more depth.<\/p>\n<p>But for now:<\/p>\n<p>Most people never take advantage of their negative energy &#8212; and instead use it to mope, overeat, and do other &#8220;self medicating&#8221; (i.e. self destructive) things to themselves.<\/p>\n<p>Screw that.<\/p>\n<p>Sac up and USE bad experiences to your advantage.<\/p>\n<p>How?<\/p>\n<p>Turn them into emails that make you more sales.<\/p>\n<p>That way, even if something REALLY sucky happens then at least you&#8217;ll cry all the way to the bank.<\/p>\n<p>I even taught this in this month&#8217;s &#8220;Email Players&#8221; issue.<\/p>\n<p>If you want it, I kept a few extra issues in stock.<\/p>\n<p>Subscribe today and I&#8217;ll send it to you:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.EmailPlayers.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">www.EmailPlayers.com<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Lesson #2: Get a REAL edu-ma-cation<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Most people avoid challenges.<\/p>\n<p>Avoid pain.<\/p>\n<p>And avoid making tough decisions.<\/p>\n<p>Thus, they avoid REAL education.<\/p>\n<p>The kind you can&#8217;t find in a book or at a school or at a goo-roo seminar or whatever. It&#8217;s only when you make hard, unpopular (even impossible) decisions and push through the fear and anxiety when you REALLY get your learn on at the street level.<\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t buy wisdom.<\/p>\n<p>You can only earn it.<\/p>\n<p>And it&#8217;s rarely an easy acquisition&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Lesson #3: Embrace the unknown<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This is a strange (in a good way) time for me.<\/p>\n<p>You see, when I was married, my entire life was basically mapped out. I had a good idea where I would be living and what I&#8217;d be doing and who I&#8217;d be doing it with.<\/p>\n<p>Now?<\/p>\n<p>Well, now my future is a big fat flashing neon &#8220;?&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>I have no clue where I want to settle down.<\/p>\n<p>Where I belong.<\/p>\n<p>Or, where I&#8217;ll end up.<\/p>\n<p>I just recently moved, but I&#8217;m already plotting my next move. The beauty of owning a business online is it doesn&#8217;t really matter. As long as you have an Internet connection, you can do your thang anywhere you want.<\/p>\n<p>Where will I go next?<\/p>\n<p>I really have no idea.<\/p>\n<p>But I must admit, it kinda EXCITES me, babycakes.<\/p>\n<p>The unknown is fun once you embrace it.<\/p>\n<p>And that, my friend, is the greatest lesson of all:<\/p>\n<p>Seizing the unknown.<\/p>\n<p>Not avoiding it, but clamping on to it.<\/p>\n<p>In my case&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>My recluse days are pretty much over.<\/p>\n<p>My marketing posse and I are already plotting a small intensive training in Las Vegas this year (details forthcoming). I&#8217;ll be going places I used to have no desire to go to, probably dabbling in speaking and maybe even doing in-house email marketing training for entrepreneurs and companies who want it.<\/p>\n<p>To paraphrase my boy Samuel Jackson in &#8220;Pulp Fiction&#8221;:<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll be like Caine in the TV show &#8220;Kung Fu&#8221;&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Wandering the earth.<\/p>\n<p>Getting into adventures.<\/p>\n<p>And helping people double sales with email along the way.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, so that&#8217;s that.<\/p>\n<p>Those are a few lessons from my divorce.<\/p>\n<p>Read &#8217;em.<\/p>\n<p>Use &#8217;em.<\/p>\n<p>And (most importantly) PROFIT from &#8217;em&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n<p><strong>P.S.<\/strong> And of course&#8230; if you&#8217;d like to join my inner sanctum of email marketing badasses&#8230; and &#8220;divorce&#8221; your bad self from all the wannabes out there (and there are many)&#8230; then check out the &#8220;Email Players&#8221; newsletter at:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.EmailPlayers.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">www.EmailPlayers.com<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Not that it&#8217;s a huge deal anymore&#8230; But I am no longer married these days. 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