{"id":6947,"date":"2013-03-13T06:00:46","date_gmt":"2013-03-13T13:00:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=6947"},"modified":"2013-03-13T06:00:46","modified_gmt":"2013-03-13T13:00:46","slug":"slipping-a-mickey-into-a-prospects-drink","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/slipping-a-mickey-into-a-prospects-drink\/","title":{"rendered":"Slipping A Mickey Into A Prospect&#8217;s Drink"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Yesterday I took a gander at my website logs.<\/p>\n<p>I like to see what keywords people use to find my site. 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