{"id":7190,"date":"2013-05-15T06:00:41","date_gmt":"2013-05-15T13:00:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=7190"},"modified":"2013-05-15T06:00:41","modified_gmt":"2013-05-15T13:00:41","slug":"if-you-wanna-play-you-gotta-pay-baby","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/if-you-wanna-play-you-gotta-pay-baby\/","title":{"rendered":"If You Wanna Play You Gotta Pay, Baby"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Not sure why, exactly&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>But over the past few weeks I&#8217;ve been getting more website subscribers asking for free advice. I&#8217;m talking about specific questions about their website, emails, squeeze pages, sales letters, etc.<\/p>\n<p>Mostly, these questions are ignored.<\/p>\n<p>And often, they&#8217;re immediately deleted.<\/p>\n<p>Why am I such a prick about it?<\/p>\n<p>Well, I&#8217;m not.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m simply delivering on what I promise to &#8220;Email Players&#8221; subscribers per the sales letter &#8212; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.EmailPlayers.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>www.EmailPlayers.com<\/strong><\/a> &#8212; where it says one of the &#8220;perks&#8221; of subscribing is email access to me with marketing questions.<\/p>\n<p>There are 2 kinds of people whose questions I answer:<\/p>\n<p>1.) My close pals in the biz<br \/>\n2.) &#8220;Email Players&#8221; subscribers<\/p>\n<p>Everyone else?<\/p>\n<p>I <em>might<\/em> answer their question in my free daily tips.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe.<\/p>\n<p>But, probably not.<\/p>\n<p>After all, why would I give someone free what my most loyal, savvy and serious students are paying for? How does that repay their loyalty? How does that honor what&#8217;s promised in the sales letter?<\/p>\n<p>Answer:<\/p>\n<p>It doesn&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>Now, let me be clear &#8212;<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s perfectly okay to ask me for advice.<\/p>\n<p>Worst case is, I don&#8217;t answer it.<\/p>\n<p>And sometimes a question fits in perfectly with an email I&#8217;m writing and I WILL answer it. Or, I may have already answered it on my blog somewhere and I may just shoot you a link to that post.<\/p>\n<p>Also, this doesn&#8217;t apply to customer service.<\/p>\n<p>(Those are always answered.)<\/p>\n<p>Only people asking for advice.<\/p>\n<p>Bottom line?<\/p>\n<p>If you wanna play, you gotta pay.<\/p>\n<p>Go here next:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.EmailPlayers.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>www.EmailPlayers.com<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Not sure why, exactly&#8230; But over the past few weeks I&#8217;ve been getting more website subscribers asking for free advice. I&#8217;m talking about specific questions about their website, emails, squeeze pages, sales letters, etc. Mostly, these questions are ignored. And often, they&#8217;re immediately deleted. Why am I such a prick about it? Well, I&#8217;m not. 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