{"id":7372,"date":"2014-06-27T06:30:52","date_gmt":"2014-06-27T13:30:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=7372"},"modified":"2014-06-27T06:30:52","modified_gmt":"2014-06-27T13:30:52","slug":"youre-kinda-like-this-fat-dude-i-know","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/youre-kinda-like-this-fat-dude-i-know\/","title":{"rendered":"You&#8217;re Kinda Like This Fat Dude I Know"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So I once got this funny email.<\/p>\n<p>It was from this guy who says he studies ALL the persuasion books and products but is still struggling with his emails. He nattered on about all the &#8220;ninja&#8221; persuasion tricks he&#8217;s been using&#8230; like how he puts a &#8220;nested loop&#8221; at the beginning of his emails&#8230; or the cool NLP things he does to change the reader&#8217;s frame (however he described it)&#8230; or how he cleverly induces the law of reciprocity he read about in Cialdini&#8217;s book to make people want to buy from him&#8230; and so on, and so forth.<\/p>\n<p>Lots of tricks and tactics.<\/p>\n<p>Few sales.<\/p>\n<p>My response?<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You&#8217;re kinda like this fat dude I know,&#8221; I said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What??&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;He studies all the complicated diets and uses all the cool equipment&#8230; but still overeats and, thus, can&#8217;t keep weight off. If he simply burned more calories than he took in he&#8217;d see results whether he used all the diet tricks or not. It&#8217;s the same with your emails and ads &#8212; learn how to sell, and you won&#8217;t need the tricks.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t know if he got the picture.<\/p>\n<p>But that&#8217;s what some of these copywriting fanboys remind me of.<\/p>\n<p>Hey, the tricks of the trade are fun.<\/p>\n<p>And, they can be useful.<\/p>\n<p>But know what&#8217;s most important?<\/p>\n<p>Knowing how people WANT to be sold to.<\/p>\n<p>How they LIKE to buy.<\/p>\n<p>And basing your copy on sound, principled thought and human nature &#8212; not the latest NLP trick or whatever.<\/p>\n<p>This is what I teach in &#8220;Email Players&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>And, works like crazy.<\/p>\n<p>Alright, that&#8217;s it for today.<\/p>\n<p>To subscribe, go to:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.EmailPlayers.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>www.EmailPlayers.com<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So I once got this funny email. 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