{"id":7438,"date":"2014-07-17T06:30:52","date_gmt":"2014-07-17T13:30:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=7438"},"modified":"2014-07-17T06:30:52","modified_gmt":"2014-07-17T13:30:52","slug":"everyone-gets-got","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/everyone-gets-got\/","title":{"rendered":"Everyone Gets Got"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p><strong>Everyone gets got<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; Dante Nero<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> Comedian &amp; Radio Talk Show Host<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>The above quote is 100% <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">truth<\/span>.<\/p>\n<p>The context is about people who get hurt, screwed over, dumped, heart broken, etc in relationships.<\/p>\n<p>(i.e. everyone gets &#8220;played&#8221;)<\/p>\n<p>But, it applies to business, too.<\/p>\n<p>Every single successful entrepreneur I know gets got.<\/p>\n<p>It could be from being swindled in an investment.<\/p>\n<p>Or buying an inferior product from a fly-by-night business, leaving you no way to get your coinage back.<\/p>\n<p>Or being screwed over by a client.<\/p>\n<p>Or being taken by a service provider.<\/p>\n<p>It could be&#8230; anything.<\/p>\n<p>But, one thing is fo&#8217; sho&#8217;:<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">We ALL get got<\/span>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>All of us.<\/p>\n<p>Question is, what do you do about it?<\/p>\n<p>Well, you can cry about it.<\/p>\n<p>A waste of time in my humble (but accurate) opinion.<\/p>\n<p>Or, you can learn from the experience and either profit from the knowledge or at least use it to protect your gluteus assimus in the future.<\/p>\n<p>I tell people who get got (including to myself when it happens):<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>&#8220;wisdom doesn&#8217;t come cheap&#8221;<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>In fact, it always comes with a price.<\/p>\n<p>Often a very <em>expensive<\/em> price.<\/p>\n<p>(In terms of money, pain, anxiety, failure, etc).<\/p>\n<p>And that&#8217;s why when you &#8220;get got&#8221; (whether it&#8217;s in business, as a consumer, in interpersonal or romantic relationships, whatever it is) the FIRST thing you should do is be <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">grateful<\/span> for it.<\/p>\n<p>After all, you just learned a valuable lesson, babycakes.<\/p>\n<p>And you can now apply it to your life.<\/p>\n<p>(And use it to help others, too.)<\/p>\n<p>Anyway.<\/p>\n<p>Do with this info what ye will.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve made lots of mistakes.<\/p>\n<p>Too many to count.<\/p>\n<p>And, I&#8217;ve learned from them all.<\/p>\n<p>A lot of that knowledge I pour into &#8220;Email Players&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Subscription info at:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.EmailPlayers.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>www.EmailPlayers.com<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Everyone gets got &#8211; Dante Nero Comedian &amp; Radio Talk Show Host The above quote is 100% truth. 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