{"id":7689,"date":"2014-08-02T06:30:37","date_gmt":"2014-08-02T13:30:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=7689"},"modified":"2014-08-02T06:30:37","modified_gmt":"2014-08-02T13:30:37","slug":"how-to-profit-from-gut-wrenching-despair","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/how-to-profit-from-gut-wrenching-despair\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Profit From Gut-Wrenching Despair"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Behold Og &#8212; king of (motivational) giants:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;I will avoid despair but if the disease of the mind should affect me then I will work on in despair. I will toil and I will endure.&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><strong>&#8211; Og Mandino<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>I dig that quote.<\/p>\n<p>One of my all time favorites.<\/p>\n<p>Why?<\/p>\n<p>Because despair can happen to anyone, at any time, for any reason, and without being deserving of it. It&#8217;s happened to me many times in my life, it&#8217;s happened to everyone I know, and, I would bet green smackola, it&#8217;s happened to you.<\/p>\n<p>(Maybe it&#8217;s even happening now&#8230;)<\/p>\n<p>And guess what?<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>It could happen again<\/strong><\/span>.<\/p>\n<p>When it does, are you going to roll over and quit?<\/p>\n<p>Let it control your emotions?<\/p>\n<p>Allow it to shape your decisions?<\/p>\n<p>I hope not.<\/p>\n<p>Because it&#8217;s during times of gnawing, grinding despair when real change (good or bad) happens. And if you take Og&#8217;s attitude, there&#8217;s a MUCH better chance of that change being good.<\/p>\n<p>Hey, let&#8217;s face it:<\/p>\n<p>You can&#8217;t always control what happens to you in life.<\/p>\n<p>But, you CAN control how you react.<\/p>\n<p>So when despair hits&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Keep moving forward.<\/p>\n<p>Use that negative energy to do great things.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">And, tell despair it hits like a little bitch<\/span>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Who knows?<\/p>\n<p>You might look back and realize that time of gut-wrenching despair was the best thing that ever happened to you.<\/p>\n<p>Alright.<\/p>\n<p>Enough beef soup for the soul.<\/p>\n<p>If you want more attitude lovin&#8217; like this, check out tomorrow&#8217;s &#8220;Ben Settle Show&#8221; podcast.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s all about attitude.<\/p>\n<p>How to give it.<\/p>\n<p>How to use it.<\/p>\n<p>And, yes, how to profit from it.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;ll be posted tomorrow.<\/p>\n<p>In the meantime, check out our past episodes here:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.BenSettleShow.com\/itunes\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>www.BenSettleShow.com\/itunes<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Ben Settle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Behold Og &#8212; king of (motivational) giants: &#8220;I will avoid despair but if the disease of the mind should affect me then I will work on in despair. I will toil and I will endure.&#8221; &#8211; Og Mandino I dig that quote. One of my all time favorites. Why? Because despair can happen to anyone, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[8,9,14],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-7689","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-copywriting-and-sales-letters","7":"category-email-marketing","8":"category-sales-marketing"},"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7689","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7689"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7689\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7689"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7689"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7689"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}