{"id":7696,"date":"2013-10-28T06:00:05","date_gmt":"2013-10-28T13:00:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=7696"},"modified":"2013-10-28T06:00:05","modified_gmt":"2013-10-28T13:00:05","slug":"backasswards-things-chicks-say","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/backasswards-things-chicks-say\/","title":{"rendered":"Backasswards Things Chicks Say"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A little TMI on ye olde personal life for ya&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><strong>&#8220;Ben, you&#8217;re just afraid of commitment!&#8221;<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I hear that every now and then.<\/p>\n<p>And it&#8217;s amusing, isn&#8217;t it?<\/p>\n<p>Especially since, chicks who say it have it completely backasswards.<\/p>\n<p>Why?<\/p>\n<p>Because you can&#8217;t build a business from scratch&#8230; forgo basic necessities for years in the pursuit of your goals&#8230; go 24+ hours without sleep to make crushing client deadlines&#8230; write daily emails to multiple lists&#8230; relentlessly go out and fail over and over and over and keep getting back up no matter how tired or burned out or bloodied you get&#8230; etc&#8230; and be &#8220;afraid&#8221; of commitment.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">I argue entrepreneurs are the EPITOME of commitment<\/span>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>We have to be.<\/p>\n<p>Think about it:<\/p>\n<p>We wouldn&#8217;t last 6 months in the cutthroat business world if we didn&#8217;t have the ability to not only commit&#8230; but commit even during times of intolerable stress, pain, failure and, sometimes, even humiliation.<\/p>\n<p>So really, it&#8217;s a dumb accusation to make.<\/p>\n<p>And, I can&#8217;t even take chicks who say it seriously.<\/p>\n<p>Now, let&#8217;s get down to bid&#8217;niz:<\/p>\n<p>The November &#8220;Email Players&#8221; issue goes to print Friday, which is just 1-2-3-4 days from now.<\/p>\n<p>It talks about how to build proof into your emails.<\/p>\n<p>Proof equals belief.<\/p>\n<p>And, belief equals more sales.<\/p>\n<p>Why?<\/p>\n<p>Because nobody buys without belief, babycakes.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, here&#8217;s where to subscribe:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.EmailPlayers.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>www.EmailPlayers.com<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A little TMI on ye olde personal life for ya&#8230; &#8220;Ben, you&#8217;re just afraid of commitment!&#8221; I hear that every now and then. 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