{"id":7764,"date":"2013-11-15T06:00:11","date_gmt":"2013-11-15T14:00:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=7764"},"modified":"2013-11-15T06:00:11","modified_gmt":"2013-11-15T14:00:11","slug":"the-joys-of-being-an-unruly-bastard","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/the-joys-of-being-an-unruly-bastard\/","title":{"rendered":"The Joys Of Being An Unruly Bastard"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;They are unruly, and therefore cannot be ruled&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><strong>-The Other<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> &#8220;The Avengers&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>I recently re-watched &#8220;The Avengers&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Not my favorite Marvel Comics movie (that honor goes to &#8220;Thor&#8221; &#8212; and before you argue my choice, remember ye the Benverb: &#8220;I&#8217;m incapable of ever being wrong, ergo I&#8217;m always right&#8221;).<\/p>\n<p>But, well worth watching again.<\/p>\n<p>Especially the mid-credits scene.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s where &#8220;The Other&#8221; (Thanos&#8217;s Lackey) tells Thanos about the earthlings &#8212; how they&#8217;re not the cowards they were supposed to be.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">And, how they&#8217;re &#8220;unruly&#8221;, and therefore cannot be ruled<\/span>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s a great business lesson there.<\/p>\n<p>Especially if you adopt the &#8220;Anti-Professional&#8221; mentality I teach.<\/p>\n<p>And that lesson is:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ruly&#8221; people are often ignored.<\/p>\n<p>Rarely make any lasting impact in their business, field, niche, or market as anything but a plain vanilla entity.<\/p>\n<p>And, worst of all&#8230; are easily enslaved.<\/p>\n<p>Enslaved by what, you ask?<\/p>\n<p>Well, your milage may vary, but I&#8217;ve noticed many of the people I know who are easily controlled are slaves to things like:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Their emotions (anger, jealousy, etc)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Competitors<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Low class jackass customers, clients and leads<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Swiping &amp; copying (they have zero ability to think, and are basically just\u00a0<em>drones<\/em>)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Their base urges<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Being &#8220;offended&#8221; at everything<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Public opinion<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Manipulative, damaged or even outright toxic people who bring zero value to their lives<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Marketing hype<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>False modesty<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Peer pressure<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Needing to be &#8220;liked&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Family (when one crab tries to crawl out of the bucket, the others immediately try to pull it back in&#8230;)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Political agendas<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Celebrity worship<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Their spouse or someone they romantically pine for<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>And the list goes on&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I know the mush cookie types on my list will disagree with me on this (if that&#8217;s you, then see ye again the Benverb above), but that makes this no less true:<\/p>\n<p>The more &#8220;ruly&#8221; you are, the more easily you&#8217;re ruled.<\/p>\n<p>So don&#8217;t be ruly.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Be UNRULY!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Especially<\/em> in business.<\/p>\n<p>In other words, don&#8217;t fear breaking silly rules. (BTW, since some people take things insanely literal &#8212; I&#8217;m not talking about breaking laws &#8212; either temporal or moral, k?)<\/p>\n<p>Or bucking public opinion.<\/p>\n<p>Or telling people bringing you down to hit the bricks.<\/p>\n<p>Or getting on your horse, living by your own code of honor and doing what you gotta do to be the best there is at what you do.<\/p>\n<p>Pretty simple stuff.<\/p>\n<p>And it&#8217;s especially true of email marketing.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s what I teach in &#8220;Email Players&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>And, it&#8217;s one reason why my system works so well.<\/p>\n<p>More info here:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.EmailPlayers.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>www.EmailPlayers.com<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;They are unruly, and therefore cannot be ruled&#8221; -The Other &#8220;The Avengers&#8221; I recently re-watched &#8220;The Avengers&#8221;. Not my favorite Marvel Comics movie (that honor goes to &#8220;Thor&#8221; &#8212; and before you argue my choice, remember ye the Benverb: &#8220;I&#8217;m incapable of ever being wrong, ergo I&#8217;m always right&#8221;). But, well worth watching again. Especially [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[8,9,14],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-7764","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-copywriting-and-sales-letters","7":"category-email-marketing","8":"category-sales-marketing"},"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7764","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7764"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7764\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7764"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7764"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7764"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}