{"id":7954,"date":"2014-01-02T06:00:23","date_gmt":"2014-01-02T14:00:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=7954"},"modified":"2014-01-02T06:00:23","modified_gmt":"2014-01-02T14:00:23","slug":"why-patient-men-rule-the-world","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/why-patient-men-rule-the-world\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Patient Men Rule The World"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Gonna do something different today.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m cracking open my skull and letting you look at my brain.<\/p>\n<p>(egh&#8230; that sounded gross, didn&#8217;t it? Hey, cut me some slack. I&#8217;m working on the second draft of my zombie novel I&#8217;ll be publishing in a few months, and the gore is bound to &#8220;seep&#8221; out into these emails from time to time&#8230;)<\/p>\n<p>Specifically, I&#8217;m gonna tell you my 2014 goals.<\/p>\n<p>This&#8217;ll take multiple emails.<\/p>\n<p>But, maybe they&#8217;ll inspire you.<\/p>\n<p>We shall see&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, my most important goal is:<\/p>\n<p><strong>PATIENCE<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Why is this my #1 goal?<\/p>\n<p>Because, my little droogie, patience is what separates the boys from the men. Patient men lead and inspire people to trust them&#8230; impatient men bring down and hurt people through their bad decisions and lack of discipline. Patient men are confident and have power over themselves and over others&#8230; impatient men are insecure and have no power over their urges, emotions or others. Patient men don&#8217;t waver and buckle under pressure, they endure and wait for the right time to act&#8230; impatient men react to pressure and often do the exact opposite what they should do, wasting their shot and often causing misery around them as a result.<\/p>\n<p>You get the picture, yeah?<\/p>\n<p>Patience is power.<\/p>\n<p>Power over yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Power over your opponents.<\/p>\n<p>And, power over your world.<\/p>\n<p>But you know what?<\/p>\n<p>I lost a lot of my patience in 2013.<\/p>\n<p>Frankly, I used to have this patience &#8220;attribute&#8221; in spades.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Delayed gratification&#8221; was my middle name.<\/p>\n<p>I would eagerly wait weeks, months even YEARS to implement plans and ideas simply because I knew that would be the best chance of those ideas succeeding in all the important areas of my life:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Business<\/li>\n<li>Family<\/li>\n<li>Relationships<\/li>\n<li>Education<\/li>\n<li>And the list goes on&#8230;.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>But, something happened in 2013 to change that.<\/p>\n<p>Exactly what happened, I know not.<\/p>\n<p>What I DO know is I had unstoppable patience in 2012.<\/p>\n<p>And in 2011.<\/p>\n<p>And in 2010.<\/p>\n<p>And, really, my entire business life.<\/p>\n<p>(Going back to 1998.)<\/p>\n<p>Then, about mid way through 2013&#8230; it was gone.<\/p>\n<p>Vanished like a fart in the wind.<\/p>\n<p>Good news is, I recently found my patience again.<\/p>\n<p>(In the last place I looked &#8212; where all my lost time is found too).<\/p>\n<p>Now it&#8217;s just a matter of getting it back to the &#8220;unconscious competence&#8221; mode it used to be in &#8212; where it was as automatic as breathing, instead of the &#8220;conscious competence&#8221; mode it&#8217;s in now, where I have to sometimes remind myself of it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Hey, you can NEVER rest on your laurels.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t care how great your life is now.<\/p>\n<p>Or, how successful you are.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, the more successful you get, the more you have to be on guard about losing the things that made you successful in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>Now, let&#8217;s wrap this email up:<\/p>\n<p>One product that takes patience to read is&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>&#8220;Christian Business Secrets&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a looooong book.<\/p>\n<p>Thick with information.<\/p>\n<p>And, not for &#8220;casual&#8221; readers.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s also *patiently* waiting for you here:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ChristianBusinessSecrets.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>www.ChristianBusinessSecrets.com<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Gonna do something different today. I&#8217;m cracking open my skull and letting you look at my brain. (egh&#8230; that sounded gross, didn&#8217;t it? Hey, cut me some slack. 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