{"id":8040,"date":"2014-01-21T06:00:54","date_gmt":"2014-01-21T14:00:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=8040"},"modified":"2014-01-21T06:00:54","modified_gmt":"2014-01-21T14:00:54","slug":"what-a-benverbs-31-woman-looks-like","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/what-a-benverbs-31-woman-looks-like\/","title":{"rendered":"What A &#8220;Benverbs 31&#8221; Chick Looks Like"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Reader &#8220;Lori&#8221; writes:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>Ben<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> You seriously major in smart a&#8211; but that&#8217;s what we love\/hate most about you.Your ability to piss off everyone at at some point is what makes you,you.Please continue to ruffle are innermost beast&#8230;<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Ah yes.<\/p>\n<p>A true &#8220;Benverbs 31&#8221; kinda chick:<\/p>\n<p>Possessing the &#8220;level 12&#8221; wisdom to see the value in having the ability to <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">simultaneously<\/span> make people both want to write me a check and rip my spleen clean out with their bare hands.<\/p>\n<p>But you know what?<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t (always) do it on purpose.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It&#8217;s a natural consequence of having an opinion.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Voicing it.<\/p>\n<p>(Especially when unpopular).<\/p>\n<p>And, doing it in a way where people both get value and entertainment out of it &#8212; which I teach in the &#8220;Email Players&#8221; newsletter each month and, especially, in &#8220;The Email Players Playbook&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>(Included with your &#8220;Email Players&#8221; subscription).<\/p>\n<p>Speak of the devil&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Next issue goes to print soon.<\/p>\n<p>A few secrets inside include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>How to use email to attract hot, sexy women into your life (or high class customers, if you&#8217;re a chick or married &#8212; ANYONE can make lots of sales from the info inside)<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>A simple mindset &#8220;tweak&#8221; that will automatically make people want to do more business with you (even if you&#8217;re a brand spanking newbie fresh off the turnip truck)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>How to emotionally connect with readers (the one thing that separates the men from the boys in copywriting, marketing, email, negotiation, selling &#8212; and all other forms of persuasion)<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>How to build &#8220;Oprah&#8221; like trust in your prospects so they feel like you&#8217;re a friend and not just another salesman trying to &#8220;work&#8221; them (I learned this trick from reality TV shows &#8212; and it works like gangbusters every time, for every market, selling any kind of product)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>The #1 way to get a girl&#8217;s attention (works on prospects for your business, too &#8212; in fact, according to Gary Halbert this is THE #1 most powerful appeal you can make in advertising)<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>A &#8220;counterintuitive&#8221; way to get someone interested in you (whether romantically or to buy from you &#8212; used by a guy who sells $30 million per year worth of wine JUST by email)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>And a ho&#8217; bunch mo&#8217;<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I don&#8217;t know how many will agree&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>But, I believe this is one of the BEST issues I&#8217;ve written.<\/p>\n<p>We shalt see&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Get your lovin&#8217; here:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.EmailPlayers.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>www.EmailPlayers.com<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Reader &#8220;Lori&#8221; writes: Ben You seriously major in smart a&#8211; but that&#8217;s what we love\/hate most about you.Your ability to piss off everyone at at some point is what makes you,you.Please continue to ruffle are innermost beast&#8230; Ah yes. 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