{"id":8075,"date":"2014-01-27T06:00:25","date_gmt":"2014-01-27T14:00:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=8075"},"modified":"2014-01-27T06:00:25","modified_gmt":"2014-01-27T14:00:25","slug":"another-woman-dumps-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/another-woman-dumps-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Another Woman Dumps Me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Yet another chick has left me.<\/p>\n<p>And, she did it with nothing but an email.<\/p>\n<p>(Note even a phone call&#8230;? Really?)<\/p>\n<p>Want to see the &#8220;break up&#8221; (i.e. unsubscribe-from-my-list)\u00a0email?<\/p>\n<p>OK, a website reader\/subscriber says when unsubscribing:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;For quite a while now you&#8217;ve been sending out emails about how whiney, stupid and irritating some women can be. At first it was funny. But now, several weeks down the line, it&#8217;s starting to become offensive. And your new video called &#8220;the female rationalisation hamster&#8221; is just about the last straw.&#8221;<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I think I feel a tear coming on.<\/p>\n<p>Oh, wait.<\/p>\n<p>Never mind.<\/p>\n<p>Just a speck of dust&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Amusingly, I got this email while hanging out with a chick that day. Of course, I read this email to her and (of course) we both laughed at it.<\/p>\n<p>Why?<\/p>\n<p>Because, there wasn&#8217;t a single fact in it.<\/p>\n<p>I have never said women &#8220;can be whiney, stupid, and irritating.&#8221; (Even if the writer of the above comment is behaving that way&#8230; but what was that about hamsters again&#8230;?) Plus, my podcast was not a &#8220;video&#8221; it was audio.<\/p>\n<p>But hey, ye females worry not!<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t judge ALL women based on the chick above.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, another of your people hath &#8220;redeemed&#8221; you.<\/p>\n<p>Reader Naomi Novella comments:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;Great show! I really like your laid back style. You definitely have great radio presence. It&#8217;s refreshing to listen to a conversation while gleaning some biz advice. Looking forward to more shows. P.S. Next time drink the vino Ben and enjoy&#8230;salute!&#8221;<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Word up, Ms. Novella.<\/p>\n<p>I will do just that later today when I record the second episode. Probably\u00a0while enjoying a glass (or two&#8230;) of wine from my favorite winery on the face of the earth:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Altipiano&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;re in Escondido, California.<\/p>\n<p>(San Diego area.)<\/p>\n<p>And, I HIGHLY recommend going wine tasting there.<\/p>\n<p>(And buying a case.)<\/p>\n<p>Also, let &#8217;em know Ben Settle sent ya.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t get any kick backs or anything (this isn&#8217;t Chicago), but they like to know who&#8217;s sending them bid&#8217;niz, and I&#8217;m an unrepentant Alipiano fanboy.<\/p>\n<p>Okay, that&#8217;s all for toda&#8211;<\/p>\n<p>Wait&#8230; what?<\/p>\n<p>You missed my podcast debut??<\/p>\n<p>Here &#8217;tis:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/ben-settle-show.s3.amazonaws.com\/BSA-1.mp3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>http:\/\/ben-settle-show.s3.amazonaws.com\/BSA-1.mp3<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yet another chick has left me. 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