{"id":8245,"date":"2014-03-06T07:00:38","date_gmt":"2014-03-06T15:00:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=8245"},"modified":"2014-03-06T07:00:38","modified_gmt":"2014-03-06T15:00:38","slug":"email-infidelity","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/email-infidelity\/","title":{"rendered":"Email Infidelity"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>On a recent Ben Settle Antipreneur Show podcast I tossed a term out there into the airwaves (cyber waves?):<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>&#8220;Email Infidelity&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s what it means:<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s when someone on your email list is too much of a loser to write their own emails, so they copy something you write word-for-word (or change juuuuuuuuuust enough where they think they can get away with it).<\/p>\n<p>They are, in effect, cheating.<\/p>\n<p>Not just on you.<\/p>\n<p>But, on their list.<\/p>\n<p>On themselves.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, even on their market.<\/p>\n<p>And like real infidelity, it may &#8220;feel good&#8221; for the moment you do the wicked filthy deed&#8230; but the consequences can be severe and life altering.<\/p>\n<p>(Not in a good way.)<\/p>\n<p>How?<\/p>\n<p>Lots of reasons.<\/p>\n<p>For one, if you do this sort of thing, you are just making yourself less effective. Less skilled. And, yes, less of a dude. That&#8217;s what happens when you cut corners, son.<\/p>\n<p>Secondly:<\/p>\n<p>You can get in legal trouble.<\/p>\n<p>True story:<\/p>\n<p>About a year ago some jackass who brags about how he makes 7-figures per year ripped one of my emails off word-for-word. When I showed it to my intellectual property attorney she said it was basically an open-and-shut case if I wanted to nail him and go after him for some fat stacks in damages.<\/p>\n<p>And third:<\/p>\n<p>Your own list will never trust you.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody trusts an cheater, after all.<\/p>\n<p>And, it&#8217;s no different with emails &#8212; in fact, in the example above, the cheater&#8217;s own list ratted him out.<\/p>\n<p>Not a whole lot of loyalty going on for them cheaters&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, bottom line?<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t do the email infidelity thang.<\/p>\n<p>The 5-second &#8220;reward&#8221; is not worth the potential lifetime hell of consequences to you as an entrepreneur, as a marketer and, yes, as a dude.<\/p>\n<p>Moving on&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m doing a special offer this week.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s how it works:<\/p>\n<p>When you buy Big Jason Henderson&#8217;s &#8220;Email Response Warrior&#8221; product at my naked affiliate link below by Friday (tomorrow) night at midnight Eastern Time&#8230; I will send you the current &#8220;Email Players&#8221; back issue catalog and you can pick any one issue inside it and I will send it to your doorstep.<\/p>\n<p>(Yes, via snail mail.)<\/p>\n<p>You will also get access to a special webinar.<\/p>\n<p>And on this webinar Big Jason and I will answer your email questions and rip apart, uhm, I mean critique, your emails.<\/p>\n<p>By the way&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Not familiar with Jason?<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;s been in the email game for 18 years.<\/p>\n<p>Seen thousands of tests.<\/p>\n<p>Has worked with a bunch of &#8220;player&#8221; clients.<\/p>\n<p>Plus, his course is $200 off at the moment.<\/p>\n<p>But, this offer ends tomorrow at the stroke of midnight.<\/p>\n<p>(Eastern time).<\/p>\n<p>Get access here:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.EmailPlayers.com\/big-jason\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>www.EmailPlayers.com\/big-jason<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>On a recent Ben Settle Antipreneur Show podcast I tossed a term out there into the airwaves (cyber waves?): &#8220;Email Infidelity&#8221; Here&#8217;s what it means: It&#8217;s when someone on your email list is too much of a loser to write their own emails, so they copy something you write word-for-word (or change juuuuuuuuuust enough where [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-8245","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-email-marketing"},"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8245","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8245"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8245\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8245"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8245"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8245"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}