{"id":8593,"date":"2015-05-18T06:30:49","date_gmt":"2015-05-18T13:30:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=8593"},"modified":"2015-05-18T06:30:49","modified_gmt":"2015-05-18T13:30:49","slug":"my-irresponsible-customer-philosophy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/my-irresponsible-customer-philosophy\/","title":{"rendered":"My &#8220;Irresponsible&#8221; Customer Philosophy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A reader doesn&#8217;t dig it:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>Ben I disagree with what you say &#8216;DON&#8217;T PUT CUSTOMERS ON A\u00a0PEDESTAL&#8217;. that is an irresponsible position to take. I love my\u00a0clients and they are the people who provide my income. be careful\u00a0what you say those customers may just turn on you if you don&#8217;t put\u00a0them on a pedestal!<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>No, they won&#8217;t, sweetie.<\/p>\n<p>Just the <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">opposite<\/span>, in fact.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s the way I see it:<\/p>\n<p>(And I&#8217;m right)<\/p>\n<p>If you put someone (anyone &#8212; clients, customers, friends, etc) up\u00a0on a pedestal, then guess what?<\/p>\n<p>They can ONLY look down on you.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s what happens when you put something on a pedestal.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s *above* you.<\/p>\n<p>It cannot possible look up to you.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">It must look down on you<\/span>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And, so it is with people, too.<\/p>\n<p>Put your customers and clients on a pedestal &#8212; and you will\u00a0automatically behave in such a way where they eventually lose\u00a0respect for you &#8212; either quickly, or over time.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve seen it happen over and over.<\/p>\n<p>(Hellz, it happened to me in my whipper-snapper days.)<\/p>\n<p>More:<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll also not do what&#8217;s in their best interest.<\/p>\n<p>Specifically, I mean marketing to them with the kind of &#8220;tough\u00a0love&#8221; they need and expect from you.<\/p>\n<p>So no, I don&#8217;t put &#8217;em on pedestals.<\/p>\n<p>And, I don&#8217;t recommend you do either.<\/p>\n<p>For more on my fiendish email ways, go here:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.EmailPlayers.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>www.EmailPlayers.com<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A reader doesn&#8217;t dig it: Ben I disagree with what you say &#8216;DON&#8217;T PUT CUSTOMERS ON A\u00a0PEDESTAL&#8217;. that is an irresponsible position to take. I love my\u00a0clients and they are the people who provide my income. be careful\u00a0what you say those customers may just turn on you if you don&#8217;t put\u00a0them on a pedestal! No, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[8,9,14],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-8593","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-copywriting-and-sales-letters","7":"category-email-marketing","8":"category-sales-marketing"},"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8593","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8593"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8593\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8593"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8593"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8593"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}