{"id":9529,"date":"2015-02-11T06:30:40","date_gmt":"2015-02-11T14:30:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=9529"},"modified":"2015-02-11T06:30:40","modified_gmt":"2015-02-11T14:30:40","slug":"confessions-of-a-hypocritical-marketing-infidel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/confessions-of-a-hypocritical-marketing-infidel\/","title":{"rendered":"Confessions Of A Hypocritical Marketing Infidel"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>True story:<\/p>\n<p>I was once listening to Dany Kennedy talk about the paradox of how\u00a0he rails against using manual labor to sell with&#8230; while he&#8217;s on\u00a0stage speaking and selling his products.<\/p>\n<p>(i.e. doing manual labor).<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m certainly no Dan Kennedy, but I can relate.<\/p>\n<p>Call it hypocrisy if you want.<\/p>\n<p>(You wouldn&#8217;t necessarily be wrong.)<\/p>\n<p>But, for better or worse (I just know it works for me), I&#8217;m a&#8230;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Novelist who doesn&#8217;t read novels<\/li>\n<li>Podcaster who doesn&#8217;t listen to podcasts<\/li>\n<li>Email marketer who rarely reads emails<\/li>\n<li>An affiliate marketer who doesn&#8217;t sell products via affiliates<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>And yet&#8230; here I am telling you to buy my novels, listen to my\u00a0podcast, read my emails, and buy from my affiliate link (when I\u00a0sell stuff as an affiliate).<\/p>\n<p>Can we say &#8220;disconnect&#8221;?<\/p>\n<p><strong>But wait, my hypocrisy gets better!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I also write marketing, copywriting, business, and sales books&#8230;\u00a0but rarely read books about marketing, copywriting, business, or\u00a0sales. I much prefer reading autobiographies of great people who\u00a0have conquered their fields, scuttled their competition, and\u00a0accomplished great things.<\/p>\n<p>But, not marketing people.<\/p>\n<p>Or sales people.<\/p>\n<p>Or, even business people, necessarily.<\/p>\n<p>You see, instead of reading about the newest way to squeeze out an\u00a0extra .005% response or learning another way to outsource&#8230; or get\u00a0more done in less time&#8230; I&#8217;d rather read about how the musician\u00a0Yanni went from sleeping in his friend&#8217;s basement, dirt broke and\u00a0with no future&#8230; to becoming one of the most successful musicians\u00a0of all time (even if I think most of his music is too dainty for my\u00a0taste). Or how author, columnist, and right wing political\u00a0commentator Pat Buchanan went from being a brawler always looking\u00a0for a scrap on the streets of Washington D.C., getting tossed in\u00a0jail, and causing hell everywhere he went&#8230; to becoming one of the\u00a0most prolific political writers of our time and advising\u00a0presidents. Or how a desperate Stephen King went from getting\u00a0hundreds of rejection slips for his stories and having to type on a\u00a0broken typewriter balanced on a child&#8217;s desk on his knees in the\u00a0back of his cold trailer home&#8230; to becoming perhaps the most\u00a0popular fiction writer in history.<\/p>\n<p><strong>And those autobiographies are just for starters.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s also the late football great Walter Payton.<\/p>\n<p>And filmmaker James Cameron (who made the 2 highest grossing movies\u00a0of all time &#8212; and let me just say, the extreme and borderline\u00a0sociopathic stuff that guy does just to get a single camera shot\u00a0for a scene in a movie that most people won&#8217;t even probably notice\u00a0is crazy&#8230;)<\/p>\n<p>And my boy coach Mike Ditka.<\/p>\n<p>And comic book creator Stan Lee.<\/p>\n<p>And, most recently, General Douglas MacArthur, whose real life\u00a0exploits in wars and battles (both on the battle field, and in\u00a0politics) make anything Hollywood could cook up look like the\u00a0Mickey Mouse Hour.<\/p>\n<p>Lookee:<\/p>\n<p><strong>All these autobiographies change the way you think.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>They change the way you view success.<\/p>\n<p>And, they change the way you attack problems.<\/p>\n<p>The things you learn in autobiographies of great men aren&#8217;t the\u00a0same things you&#8217;re going to learn in yet another best-selling\u00a0business book on Amazon or in an IM launch with a fancy whiz-bang\u00a0name attached to it designed to rile up the goo-roo fanboys\u00a0and affiliates haunting the Warrior Forum.<\/p>\n<p>This is the kind of material that changes your brain.<\/p>\n<p>Forces you to be more adaptable.<\/p>\n<p>And, dare I say&#8230; turns you into an infidel in your niche &#8212; as\u00a0you automatically start doing things the opposite of how everyone\u00a0else is, not caring what people think, and developing a powerful\u00a0&#8220;anything that gets in your way DIES!&#8221; mindset that&#8217;s as rare as\u00a0hens teeth these days. (People fake this attitude in social media\u00a0all the time, I&#8217;m talking about &#8220;for realz&#8221; having it.)<\/p>\n<p>My point?<\/p>\n<p>I once heard this advice:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>&#8220;If you want to do great things, don&#8217;t read great books. Read books about great men.&#8221;<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>(That&#8217;s more of a paraphrasing, but you get the gist&#8230;)<\/p>\n<p>So it just seems to me that, if you want to conquer and rule over\u00a0whatever it is you do&#8230; read about great people, and how they\u00a0thought and worked&#8230; how they stared Desperate in the face and\u00a0kicked its ass&#8230; and how they (to quote one of my favorite movies\u00a0&#8220;The Shawshank Redemption&#8221;) sometimes crawled through a river of\u00a0shit and came out clean on the other side.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, something to think about.<\/p>\n<p>Do whatever it is you think is right.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not here to tell you what to read or not.<\/p>\n<p>If you want to read about yet another super secret ninja rockstar\u00a0gangsta persuasion technique, then have a party.<\/p>\n<p>Me?<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m gonna get back (right when I&#8217;m done writing this) into reading\u00a0about how General MacArthur inspired such a fear and awe in his\u00a0enemies, that the Japanese obeyed (and practically worshipped) him\u00a0over even their own emperor after WW2.<\/p>\n<p>Okay.<\/p>\n<p>One last paradoxical hypocritical note:<\/p>\n<p>Yes, I think you should read biographies of great men before\u00a0reading yet another thing about sales, marketing, persuasion, etc.<\/p>\n<p>But, I also think you should check out &#8220;Email Players&#8221;:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.EmailPlayers.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>www.EmailPlayers.com<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>True story: I was once listening to Dany Kennedy talk about the paradox of how\u00a0he rails against using manual labor to sell with&#8230; while he&#8217;s on\u00a0stage speaking and selling his products. (i.e. doing manual labor). I&#8217;m certainly no Dan Kennedy, but I can relate. Call it hypocrisy if you want. (You wouldn&#8217;t necessarily be wrong.) 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