{"id":9623,"date":"2015-04-05T06:30:50","date_gmt":"2015-04-05T13:30:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=9623"},"modified":"2015-04-05T06:30:50","modified_gmt":"2015-04-05T13:30:50","slug":"why-you-should-kill-your-inner-nice-guy-execution-style-asap","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/why-you-should-kill-your-inner-nice-guy-execution-style-asap\/","title":{"rendered":"Why You Should Kill Your Inner Nice Guy &#8220;Execution Style&#8221; ASAP"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>On this special Easter Sunday &#8220;Ben Settle Show&#8221; Producer Jonathan and I show you the foolishness and self-destruction caused by being &#8220;nice.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s a taste of the meanness\u00a0inside:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>How being nice does neither you or anyone else any good whatsoever. (And actually encourages the worst attributes in people to come out and play.)<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>A real life example of how being &#8220;nice&#8221; by giving away valuable information for free can get you slandered and bad-mouthed on the Internet.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>A list of terrible things that befall the average nice guy in his life time. (If you&#8217;re a self described nice guy, chances are many of these have happened to you&#8230; and will continue to happen to you until you chance your wicked ways.)<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Why being nice is almost guaranteed to get a guy dumped, friend-zoned, or turned into an &#8220;emotional tampon.&#8221; (Especially by the chicks who insist otherwise.)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>How being nice prevents people from getting job promotions.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Why it&#8217;s foolish to be nice to hostile customers these days.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Why friends, family, and lovers have almost no choice but to take advantage of nice guys. (It&#8217;s not malicious, but it is inevitable if you&#8217;re a proverbial nice guy.)<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Why nice guys are far more likely to be scammed.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>8 ways to execute your inner nice guy without selling your soul to the devil. (Follow my simple advice and in the next 2 minutes you can put your inner nice guy on his knees, walk behind him, and execute him, never to plague you with his nauseating niceness ever again.)<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>What to tell your girlfriend if she flirts with other dudes.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>The exact best time to eject toxic people out of your life.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>The Joker&#8217;s (ethical) advice to business owners who pride themselves on being &#8220;nice.&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>The one attribute practically every nice guy has in common (and no, it&#8217;s not a good one&#8230;)<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Why making being &#8220;liked&#8221; a goal is foolish.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>And lots more mean advice that&#8217;ll give you peace.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Download this bad-boy here:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.BenSettleShow.com\/antipreneur\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>www.BenSettleShow.com\/antipreneur<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ben Settle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>On this special Easter Sunday &#8220;Ben Settle Show&#8221; Producer Jonathan and I show you the foolishness and self-destruction caused by being &#8220;nice.&#8221; Here&#8217;s a taste of the meanness\u00a0inside: How being nice does neither you or anyone else any good whatsoever. (And actually encourages the worst attributes in people to come out and play.) 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