{"id":9746,"date":"2015-05-31T06:30:00","date_gmt":"2015-05-31T13:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/?p=9746"},"modified":"2015-05-31T06:30:00","modified_gmt":"2015-05-31T13:30:00","slug":"why-the-law-of-reciprocity-is-a-crock","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bensettle.com\/blog\/why-the-law-of-reciprocity-is-a-crock\/","title":{"rendered":"Why The Law Of Reciprocity Is A Crock"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Producer Jonathan and I get down and dirty ripping apart the so-called &#8220;law of reciprocity&#8221; in today&#8217;s Ben Settle Show.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s a small taste of what&#8217;s inside:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>A secret way of &#8220;arranging&#8221; it so when people buy your first product, they immediately and automatically (no sales pitch even necessary in many cases) buy your second, third, fourth, and future products.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>How old school door-to-door salesmen would use the law of reciprocity (correctly, not the current Internet goo-roo way) to get people to eagerly open the door for them to sell their wares. 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(And which one is worth more to you over the course of your life.)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>How the law of reciprocity attracts the bottom-of-the-barrel people to you.<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Why people who obsess over the law of reciprocity have a hyper-scarcity mindset.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>The only reason to give away a bribe or premium in exchange for opting in to your list. (Hint: If you&#8217;re doing it so you think someone will &#8220;reciprocate&#8221; and buy from you, you&#8217;re basically stepping over dollars to pick up pennies &#8212; do it for this reason we talk about instead, and watch how much higher quality of opt-ins you get.)<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>What you should be weary of when studying the best, highest-paid salesmen and marketers. (Doing what some of these blokes do will send you into the poor house lickety split. 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