About a year ago one of my customers Shane Whaley said an issue of “Email Players” inspired him to change his online dating profile so he could find a good woman to meet and Settle down with.
I reprinted his email last year.
But, here is the tl;dr version:
He changed his profile using my wily ways, met a chick, and in a truly whirlwind romance… proposed. Of course, she said yes (my boys and I don’t get rejected, we do the rejecting). And, well, so it is.
Then, a little later, Love Doctor elBenbo followed up.
After all, a good doctor always checks up on his patients.
It’s just good science.
Anyway, the result?
Well, in his own words:
Thanks for asking. We get married July 2016 in the state of Vermont. Her home state.
I didn’t expect Email players would land me a wife ;-). It has though landed us 2 clients a month at and best ever result on an affiliate deal I pumped out last week.
Still lots to learn but the Settle method is working for us.
Never let it be said elBenbo has no heart.
Plus, I’ve said it before, I’ll say it again:
There are multiple parallels between the dating world and the marketing world — if you’re good at one you have all the “tools” to be good at the other.
When you do email my way, the chicks will dig you.
The customers will dig you.
And, yes, the banker will dig you.
You can learn my romantic email ways here:
Ben Settle
